Hmm really just depends on the dress I suppose. I've seen the tanning wipes and spray on tan that both wash off the next day, have you tried any of those?
Skip the nylons. Most people I know are pale, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. Maybe get some of that lotion that makes your skin glisten (not a self-tanner, but it just gives your skin a little oomph) and have fun!
Re: fashion ?
Go Phils!!
pale is totally in. ivory skin looks best when it's moisturized and has a little sheen to it....think luminescent.
work it and enjoy!
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