2011, the year of tragedy... :(

Smuches4u

I really wish I was imagining all of this.  I really wish our family didn't have to experience so much loss in such a short period of time.

DH's Godmother passed away suddenly of a heart attack on Monday.  We got the call yesterday.

DH is holding it all in and burying himself in work.  Besides our already scheduled vacation, he hasn't taken even an hour to feel anything about his Grandmothers passing (mind you we were all prepared for that one).  And now, he's planning on going back into work after DC goes to bed to work more this evening.

Services are on Friday, and I'm thankful that he's making a point to be there, I am too. 

I'm worried about him.  About the greif, about the stress, about what it's doing to his body.  The last thing we need is for him to be in the hospital.

I don't think I've ever called to my Higher Power more in my life.

Lexi & Orion's Mommy

ugg, i am so sorry you are all going through so much right now

MommySteph2009

I am so sorry.  Sending my thoughts and prayers to your DH to help him get through this.

dirtbikemom

HUGS!!!  

Just remember that people deal with grief and loss in different ways.  When my FIL passed away my husband didn't take any time off work because if he was working it took his mind off of everything.  Just be there for him when he needs you and take care of yourself too!  

Mrs_Shmoopie

I'm so sorry, J. {{{HUGS}}}

I think Janet gave good advice.  Your DH is going through his own process and all you can do is take care of yourself as much as possible so that you can be there for him when he needs you.  So hard, I know, especially b/c I think it's so in your nature to feel so deeply for the ones you love that you would rather take all their pain on yourself than have them feel the pain.  More {{{{HUGS}}}}

secretkeeper321

When it rains, it pours. My heart goes out to you, your DH and your family. Don't forget to take care of yourself too...you'll be no good to DH when he's ready to grieve if you've worn yourself out. We're all here if you need anything.

tiki_t

*Hugs* After everything has settled down, maybe he can look to see if he has EAP coverage through his employer. That way he can see a grief counselor. 

I can relate to all of this. DH lost two grandparents in one year. DH buried himself in work too. He had to approach it in his own time.

mommy2jay

so sorry you guys have to go through so much right now, lots of hugs and prayers going out to you and your family

SweetieP

Hugs!

bunch

oof, that's so sad.  I'm so sorry for you loss and continue to keep your family in my prayers.  I hope that your DH does make the time to grieve. 

I'm so sorry.

teambaumer

J, so so sorry for your loss. Sending you lot's of thoughts, prayers, and good vibes at this difficult time. {{{Big Hugs}}}

MsPurple24

I'm so very sorry to hear that.  Many good thoughts to you and your husband.

quesarah

I'm so sorry to hear about your DH's godmother.  Lots of hugs and good thoughts headed your family's way!

2bearichards

I am so sorry

Elizabeth1017

So sorry that you and your family are having to go through this =(  HUGE (((hugs)))

lukaface

Huge hugs to you and your family   I'm sorry you all have to deal with this on top of everything else. 

soon2Bkranz

Lots of loving thoughts for all of you

Carolee

I'm so sorry for all you and your family are dealing with right now. T&P.

StefandTodd

I'm so sorry, and am thinking of you and your family

vivemote

Ugh. I am so sorry. Hang in there.  

LV2006

I'm so sorry you are going through all of this.  One at a time is hard enough, but all at once is just too much.  Sending you lots of positive thoughts...