Condoms. (TMI)

candr09

Wondering if anyone is missing condoms since TTC. I know that might sound crazy, and I never thought I would be the one to say it... but I think I might actually miss them.

Since we havn't officially started TTC yet and I didn't want to go on BC between pregnancies DH and I have been sticking with condoms. At first I hated it, because before baby #1 I was on BC for years and DH and I never used condoms, so it was definitely a different feeling that took some getting used to, but now the sex is so much.... longer.

Not that DH was ever really a "minute man", our sexual acts were always in the realm of 30-45 minutes, but that being mostly making out / foreplay. The actual intercourse used to only be maybe 10 minutes or so. Last night - with a condom - 30 minutes of actual intercourse. about an hour total of sexytime. It. Was. Amazing. I had multiple orgasms for the first time ever. EVER.

Now I kinda wanna continue using condoms and just not use them right around O when we do start TTC. haha.

Belizelovers

No I am sorry I hate condoms because it doesnt have the same sensations..  except I hate the leakage (TMI) afterwards without using them it was definetley easier clean up

BN+JL2010

DH and I never used them (I was on Mirena for 2 years). It's been ages since I had sex with a condom so I can't say as though I miss them!

arbeyer

Belizelovers:

No I am sorry I hate condoms because it doesnt have the same sensations..  except I hate the leakage (TMI) afterwards without using them it was definetley easier clean up

 I miss the easy clean up too but I hate the smell of condoms!!

Belizelovers

Glad to know that I am not the only one who misses the clean up.  Condoms do smell nasty.  When my DH husband has wanted to BD in the morning I told him no because I didn't want to have the leakage for the rest of the day   Kinda felt bad but at the same time did not

arbeyer

Belizelovers:

Glad to know that I am not the only one who misses the clean up.  Condoms do smell nasty.  When my DH husband has wanted to BD in the morning I told him no because I didn't want to have the leakage for the rest of the day   Kinda felt bad but at the same time did not

 I know what you mean! It is so gross leaking out all day, it feels so gross. haha I'm gland I'm not the only one that feels this way too!

SheenaNash1

Ha ha OP! I'm the exact opposite, if DH went on for 30 minutes of just straight sex I'd be so sore and grumpy. I like 10-15 of actual sex and then I'm done. But that being said I'm not a girl who can get orgasms during intercourse, so that has a lot to do with it too. I'm just naturally a girl who like a quickie the best, so no condoms are great for that!

TrendyTina

arbeyer:

Belizelovers:

No I am sorry I hate condoms because it doesnt have the same sensations..  except I hate the leakage (TMI) afterwards without using them it was definetley easier clean up

 I miss the easy clean up too but I hate the smell of condoms!!

This! Exactly THIS!  

fyziksgirl

SheenaNash1:

Ha ha OP! I'm the exact opposite, if DH went on for 30 minutes of just straight sex I'd be so sore and grumpy. I like 10-15 of actual sex and then I'm done. But that being said I'm not a girl who can get orgasms during intercourse, so that has a lot to do with it too. I'm just naturally a girl who like a quickie the best, so no condoms are great for that!

This! I pretty much always want my hubby to finish as quickly as possible (since that's like 10 minutes minimum for him), I hate the 30 minutes of thrusting. I get my multiple orgasms from my favorite, favorite inanimate object, the Magic Wand by Hitachi. Buy one. BUY ONE. :-) After my hubby has finished and we do some clean up we cuddle and play...and I have my fun.

I used to like the feel of condoms, now I'm not used to them so I don't like the feel. I'm sure I'll get used to them again between kids.

Michelle_G

SheenaNash1:

Ha ha OP! I'm the exact opposite, if DH went on for 30 minutes of just straight sex I'd be so sore and grumpy. I like 10-15 of actual sex and then I'm done. But that being said I'm not a girl who can get orgasms during intercourse, so that has a lot to do with it too. I'm just naturally a girl who like a quickie the best, so no condoms are great for that!

 I am so, like 110%, with you on this!!!!

Belizelovers

  I love this chat because I feel normal now thought I was the only one who did not want 30 minute long sex 10-15 minutes is perfect for me with no condom

Shayliz

I like sex much more without condoms.. DH can last a while sometimes, and I hated the feeling of condoms. 

Sullivan1416

arbeyer:

Belizelovers:

No I am sorry I hate condoms because it doesnt have the same sensations..  except I hate the leakage (TMI) afterwards without using them it was definetley easier clean up

 I miss the easy clean up too but I hate the smell of condoms!!

this exactly!