Sorry, but I am new here and I have searched the glossary for what DD means and I don't believe the definition they have is the same as the "DD" being said here. What does it mean?
Sorry, but I am new here and I have searched the glossary for what DD means and I don't believe the definition they have is the same as the "DD" being said here. What does it mean?
Sorry, but I am new here and I have searched the glossary for what DD means and I don't believe the definition they have is the same as the "DD" being said here. What does it mean?
Dirty Delete. It means deleting your post, especially after people have taken the time to respond to it. And it's considered very rude.
Sorry, but I am new here and I have searched the glossary for what DD means and I don't believe the definition they have is the same as the "DD" being said here. What does it mean?
Dirty Delete. It means deleting your post, especially after people have taken the time to respond to it. And it's considered very rude.
Thank goodness I have such a good memory for random, seemingly useless bits of information.
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Hi. I am the OP that DD'd. Here is my explanation that means no harm.
I had no idea that there was such a thing as DD. I did not know it was rude, not nice, or anything of the sort. I apologize if I truly offended you. It is true... I did delete it because she was the only person to actually answer my question and she was totally getting hounded for it. I agree making a baby registry under a fake name is different but I am sure we all have went to amazon or something and has some sort of wish list. It may be written down or on website or just in our heads but it is the same practice. I just don't find it acceptable to ridicule her for no good reason. All, I wanted was an answer for how everybody gets through the ups and the downs and the waiting. I have hobbies, I have sex, I drink on occasion. I was looking for real answers on how you get through it. How do you get it off of your mind or does it ever? Instead I got making fun of some poor girl and things just to make me feel stupid.
These type of situations really dissappoint me because I come to thebump because we all have a common ground. Nobody knows that DH and I are TTC and my family and friends are 12+hours away. I come here to talk about it and be with people that understand what its like. Yet, everytime I get on here I definitely don't feel understanding or support.
Again, I am not yelling at anybody or anything of the sort. I am just stating my side of it. From the bottom of my heart I do apologize if I upset you by deleting it. I truly meant no harm.
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TTC #1 08.10
DX: PCOS 03.11
Metformin 1500mg
Hi. I am the OP that DD'd. Here is my explanation that means no harm.
I had no idea that there was such a thing as DD. I did not know it was rude, not nice, or anything of the sort. I apologize if I truly offended you. It is true... I did delete it because she was the only person to actually answer my question and she was totally getting hounded for it. I agree making a baby registry under a fake name is different but I am sure we all have went to amazon or something and has some sort of wish list. It may be written down or on website or just in our heads but it is the same practice. I just don't find it acceptable to ridicule her for no good reason. All, I wanted was an answer for how everybody gets through the ups and the downs and the waiting. I have hobbies, I have sex, I drink on occasion. I was looking for real answers on how you get through it. How do you get it off of your mind or does it ever? Instead I got making fun of some poor girl and things just to make me feel stupid.
These type of situations really dissappoint me because I come to thebump because we all have a common ground. Nobody knows that DH and I are TTC and my family and friends are 12+hours away. I come here to talk about it and be with people that understand what its like. Yet, everytime I get on here I definitely don't feel understanding or support.
Again, I am not yelling at anybody or anything of the sort. I am just stating my side of it. From the bottom of my heart I do apologize if I upset you by deleting it. I truly meant no harm.
So are you going to delete every thread you post that doesn't go the way you want? If so, this may not be the place for you, and that's okay. There are other boards and other forums that may have more the vibe you want. We're outspoken, and we generally don't hold back. If that bothers you, or if you feel you have the right to control what's on the board by deleting others' remarks, you should probably find support elsewhere.
Hi. I am the OP that DD'd. Here is my explanation that means no harm.
I had no idea that there was such a thing as DD. I did not know it was rude, not nice, or anything of the sort. I apologize if I truly offended you. It is true... I did delete it because she was the only person to actually answer my question and she was totally getting hounded for it. I agree making a baby registry under a fake name is different but I am sure we all have went to amazon or something and has some sort of wish list. It may be written down or on website or just in our heads but it is the same practice. I just don't find it acceptable to ridicule her for no good reason. All, I wanted was an answer for how everybody gets through the ups and the downs and the waiting. I have hobbies, I have sex, I drink on occasion. I was looking for real answers on how you get through it. How do you get it off of your mind or does it ever? Instead I got making fun of some poor girl and things just to make me feel stupid.
These type of situations really dissappoint me because I come to thebump because we all have a common ground. Nobody knows that DH and I are TTC and my family and friends are 12+hours away. I come here to talk about it and be with people that understand what its like. Yet, everytime I get on here I definitely don't feel understanding or support.
Again, I am not yelling at anybody or anything of the sort. I am just stating my side of it. From the bottom of my heart I do apologize if I upset you by deleting it. I truly meant no harm.
So are you going to delete every thread you post that doesn't go the way you want? If so, this may not be the place for you, and that's okay. There are other boards and other forums that may have more the vibe you want. We're outspoken, and we generally don't hold back. If that bothers you, or if you feel you have the right to control what's on the board by deleting others' remarks, you should probably find support elsewhere.
Wait, someone got hounded for having a fake registry? ::runs to delete her fake registry::
She also said she goes to the baby section of Target and touches her tummy "knowingly." There were multiple things in the girl's post we thought were weird.
So are you going to delete every thread you post that doesn't go the way you want? If so, this may not be the place for you, and that's okay. There are other boards and other forums that may have more the vibe you want. We're outspoken, and we generally don't hold back. If that bothers you, or if you feel you have the right to control what's on the board by deleting others' remarks, you should probably find support elsewhere.
Wait, someone got hounded for having a fake registry? ::runs to delete her fake registry::
I think more people were hounding the fact that she claimed to stand in the baby section at Target with her hand on her belly as she "smiles knowingly" at people.
Hi. I am the OP that DD'd. Here is my explanation that means no harm.
I had no idea that there was such a thing as DD. I did not know it was rude, not nice, or anything of the sort. I apologize if I truly offended you. It is true... I did delete it because she was the only person to actually answer my question and she was totally getting hounded for it. I agree making a baby registry under a fake name is different but I am sure we all have went to amazon or something and has some sort of wish list. It may be written down or on website or just in our heads but it is the same practice. I just don't find it acceptable to ridicule her for no good reason. All, I wanted was an answer for how everybody gets through the ups and the downs and the waiting. I have hobbies, I have sex, I drink on occasion. I was looking for real answers on how you get through it. How do you get it off of your mind or does it ever? Instead I got making fun of some poor girl and things just to make me feel stupid.
These type of situations really dissappoint me because I come to thebump because we all have a common ground. Nobody knows that DH and I are TTC and my family and friends are 12+hours away. I come here to talk about it and be with people that understand what its like. Yet, everytime I get on here I definitely don't feel understanding or support.
Again, I am not yelling at anybody or anything of the sort. I am just stating my side of it. From the bottom of my heart I do apologize if I upset you by deleting it. I truly meant no harm.
So are you going to delete every thread you post that doesn't go the way you want? If so, this may not be the place for you, and that's okay. There are other boards and other forums that may have more the vibe you want. We're outspoken, and we generally don't hold back. If that bothers you, or if you feel you have the right to control what's on the board by deleting others' remarks, you should probably find support elsewhere.
What Brooke said.
Completely aside from Target girl, I felt that I did genuinely answer your question, and while it may not have been what you wanted to hear, I was being sincere. I'm sorry you felt like you weren't being heard.
Re: ***I HATE IT!!! Why did you DD?***
Are you confused or something? Where did you get the idea that I hate DDs? Or, that I somehow piss off the OP of that thread?
You know what they say when you assume...
manamana
DODOOOOODODODO
NFT.
Somehow I doubt that.
Ooh ooh I do!! I totally just said it in the other thread! When you assume, you make an ass out of you and me!
Ok leaving this thread as well... just wanted to say ass again!
Bahahaha. I like you.
And I like you. Not only are you pretty funny, but your name and siggy remind me of when I was a kid! I love The Muppets and that song!
ETA: Ok reaaally leaving now. I have to get some work done.
Dirty Delete.
Dirty Delete. It means deleting your post, especially after people have taken the time to respond to it. And it's considered very rude.
Thanks
I missed the original post.
Does anyone remember OP or Target Girl's name?
Target girl is LaraValentine.
Thank goodness I have such a good memory for random, seemingly useless bits of information.
Me too... now i'm curious....
I heart this gif! I often wish there was an emoticon with a big fat pouty lower lip... plus I heart The Shat so this rocks my socks!
Shatner is the MAN!
If you've never seen it...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HU2ftCitvyQ
That's towel girl!!
TTC #1 since March 2011
1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
DS1 born 2/14
TTC #2 since December 2014
May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
DS2 born 4/17
YES!!! God I hope she sticks around.
Im so sad i missed it too! (I love this PIP!)
Hi. I am the OP that DD'd. Here is my explanation that means no harm.
I had no idea that there was such a thing as DD. I did not know it was rude, not nice, or anything of the sort. I apologize if I truly offended you. It is true... I did delete it because she was the only person to actually answer my question and she was totally getting hounded for it. I agree making a baby registry under a fake name is different but I am sure we all have went to amazon or something and has some sort of wish list. It may be written down or on website or just in our heads but it is the same practice. I just don't find it acceptable to ridicule her for no good reason. All, I wanted was an answer for how everybody gets through the ups and the downs and the waiting. I have hobbies, I have sex, I drink on occasion. I was looking for real answers on how you get through it. How do you get it off of your mind or does it ever? Instead I got making fun of some poor girl and things just to make me feel stupid.
These type of situations really dissappoint me because I come to thebump because we all have a common ground. Nobody knows that DH and I are TTC and my family and friends are 12+hours away. I come here to talk about it and be with people that understand what its like. Yet, everytime I get on here I definitely don't feel understanding or support.
Again, I am not yelling at anybody or anything of the sort. I am just stating my side of it. From the bottom of my heart I do apologize if I upset you by deleting it. I truly meant no harm.
So are you going to delete every thread you post that doesn't go the way you want? If so, this may not be the place for you, and that's okay. There are other boards and other forums that may have more the vibe you want. We're outspoken, and we generally don't hold back. If that bothers you, or if you feel you have the right to control what's on the board by deleting others' remarks, you should probably find support elsewhere.
P/SAIF Welcome
Invisible Finish Line
3T's Traveling Ovary Blog
7DPO Progesterone: low. CD3 BW: normal, HSG: clear
DX: severe MFI (low all 3) and low T. Undergoing replacement therapy.
She also said she goes to the baby section of Target and touches her tummy "knowingly." There were multiple things in the girl's post we thought were weird.
P/SAIF Welcome
Invisible Finish Line
3T's Traveling Ovary Blog
7DPO Progesterone: low. CD3 BW: normal, HSG: clear
DX: severe MFI (low all 3) and low T. Undergoing replacement therapy.
I think more people were hounding the fact that she claimed to stand in the baby section at Target with her hand on her belly as she "smiles knowingly" at people.
ETA: I agree with Brooke.
What Brooke said.
Completely aside from Target girl, I felt that I did genuinely answer your question, and while it may not have been what you wanted to hear, I was being sincere. I'm sorry you felt like you weren't being heard.