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Had a moment yesterday...

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My mom and I were at a wedding and there was this fairly young couple 2 rows ahead of us in church.  They had a 5-6 month old baby and she was visibly pregnant again. 

I hate having those green envy thoughts, but it got the best of me.  Seriously, can't I get pregnant, have a successful pregnancy and a healthy take home once?  Clearly, she is having two in less time than I've been trying. 

::sigh:: 

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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I'm sorry. It sucks.

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    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    I have those moments too.  *hugs*  
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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    It is so hard to not have those moments.  I am so sorry. *hugs*
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm sorry.  It's just not fair.  I had the same experience at a rodeo a couple of weekends ago.  I really was hopping the mom just hadn't lost the pg weight yet, but then she pulled out the u/s pictures to show a friend.  I wasn't the least bit sad when a horse kicked up some dirt in our section and a dirt clot hit her and fell down her blouse.
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    {{{hugs}}} It's unfair how the world works!!


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    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
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  • suntotosuntoto member

    Honestly I feel that way about PAL.  Most of the women there are the ones I started TTCAL with and now they are trying for 2u2 or just popped out 2u2.  It makes me sad that my body doesn't work that way.  Wink

    HUGS.  It is hard. 

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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I'm sorry. I'm sure that there isn't one person on this board who hasn't had the same internal dialog, it sucks! IF sucks!
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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member

    Thanks ladies - your support means the world.  I think with IVF # 2 starting (hopefully) later this week, I am just on edge.  This is really, really it for us treatment wise (unless we win the lottery). 

    Kristy - your story made me laugh - seriously.  Picturing the dirt flying up on her - lol.  I know that's not nice, but I just couldn't help it. 

    Wishing none of us had to feel this way, but it's comforting to know I'm not alone.  Love you ladies! 

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending hugs, I'm sorry it really sucks. I have these moments at work often.

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  • jolieandscottjolieandscott
    (((Hugs))). I can't even watch guilty pleasure shows like the Duggars and 16 & Pg anymore.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    (((HUGS)))  You are definitely not alone in feeling like that.
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