I talked with DH yesterday and it seems he is just worried about the market but understands that he can't guarentee things will be better in a year so we've agreed to wait to late summer/early fall. We can afford another baby regardless, it's a matter of our lifestyle and I want him to be comfortable moving forward. If you have experience w/STD or HR, can you help me out with the following:
I have 3 weeks of paid vacation that I can use for maternity leave in addition to my STD. I know STD will pay even if the baby comes during the summer (I work in a school system) but I am curious about how it works if I deliver during the school year. I know it kicks in after one week on leave, does that mean it will overlap with my sick/vacation time or do they run consecutively? We are trying to plan our next IVF cycle and this definitely plays a role.
ETA: to clarify STD standing for short term disability

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Re: Question about Short term disability (STD) after a long talk with DH
I don't have an answer to your question but when I read your post, I read "Question about sexually transmitted disease after a long talk with DH". I thought to myself, well there's a post you don't see everyday on SAIF. Baby boards, yes, not SAIF.
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This is how mine worked-
STD didn't kick in until I was out for 60 days so I am a bit jealous:) but it ran consecutively. So each day it was 75% STD, 25% sick/vacation until my leave time ran out and then each check was just 75% STD.
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It is a contract through my district but with an outside agency but I suppose I should call on this otherwise I'm cancelling. I was told if I get PG on or after July 1 I am covered but I didn't ask about IF. I am going to call today.
TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP
TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!