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ARK2011

I am making my first post and hoping you all can help.  I have read many post here for quite awhile and I feel as if I now have the time to "join" you all!  I need some advice regarding my friend, ever since she has married her husband she has TOTALLY changed.  She has become a down right nasty person and is just plain mean to people.  She had a baby a few months ago and it seems as if she is getting even more ridiculous about things!  I know that she takes some mental health meds, but don't think they're working as they use to... help?  how do I bring this up to her?

PubStar09

I'm gonna need examples.

Also, if it's really bad, I would bite the bullet and tell her she's being a biitch and hope she's a good enough friend to listen to you and not hate you for it.

ARK2011

I have tried this prior to pregnancy, she bit my head off and said that I was the problem. I have even tried talking to her husband.  Makes me sad and I miss my old friend

ARK2011

Sorry, forgot to give examples... when I bring up an idea for my child, she becomes extremely judgemental and makes me feel as if I am the worst mother in the world.  I was unable to breast feed my daughter and since I gave her formula at 3 months, she believes the cause for the behaviors that we are dealing with ---HELLO, she is a toddler!  Also, she is very knowledgable about computers, when I ask for assistance she huffs and puffs and rolls her eyes at me like I am the biggest idiot in the world! She never use to be this way and was free spirited and good natured... willing to help anyone and anything.  She thinks that if you do not make the same parenting decisions or marital decisions as she and DH make then you are the worst person/parent/wife in the WORLD.  SHE IS THE BEST!

 

andrew's wifey

If someone was treating me like that, I'd drop them like a bad habit, no matter how awesome things were in the past.

iteachk

andrew's wifey:

If someone was treating me like that, I'd drop them like a bad habit, no matter how awesome things were in the past.

This.  And I've done it in the past with zero regrets.  Friends don't make you feel like crap, period.

akalutts

ITeachK:

andrew's wifey:

If someone was treating me like that, I'd drop them like a bad habit, no matter how awesome things were in the past.

This.  And I've done it in the past with zero regrets.  Friends don't make you feel like crap, period.

PubStar09

Yeah, dump her.