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psychmusetls
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psychmusetls
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I went to a new gyno last week. (the first thing he says when he walks in the door is "congratulations, you're pregnant!" - if i was wearing pants I would have ran out, but that's a whole other story ). So I went because I've been having weird spotting. My last period was in January but on May 9, 19, and 29 I had weird spotting accompanied with bad cramps that lasted less than 24 hours. This concerned my obgyn and he told me to f/u with my RE. I go tomorrow.
**edit - not pregnant. at least i hope i wasn't. i POAS with the spotting and got BFN 2x...the ob was just a *** and made a mistake**
I just took a shower and this bloody thing fell out of me. I'm so scared that it is another m/c. I was just going to wash it down the drain but I looked closer at it and poked it - it was tough but I think I damaged it a bit. I got a plastic bag and kept it...I keep starring at it...I don't know if I really see what could be a small very early fetus or if my mind is just playing tricks on me. I am crampy now but not bleeding. I don't know what to think. I'm trying to google but it's not putting my mind at ease, it's just making me more anxious. DH isn't home. I'm a hot mess.
S/PAIFW
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
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Re: scared
Well, congrats first...
And HUGE HUGS....i so hope it is just spotting or something easily explained.
TTC Since 10/08 4 IUIs=BFNx4
IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
IVF#2=BFN
IVF#3=c/p IVF#4=Empty Follicle Syndrome; 1 mature, fertilized, & made it to blast. 5dt of "the lone ranger" on 9/6. Please stick, little one!
no congrats - i didn't know i was pg if i was. that gyno just made a huge mistake...or so i thought. I had BFN pee sticks. I'm praying that i wasn't. cause that would just be a cruel joke...
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
Oh wow, that is nuts....I think i misunderstood the story. So ur gyno was wrong (or at least assumed wrong), and u just had weird bleeding issue today? Ok, now i think i understand.
UGH, how stressful HUGS!!!
SAIF/PAIF Always Welcome!
TTC #1 May 2008
6 Rounds Clomid, 1 Round Femera-BFN
4 IUIs (1 Clomid, 1 Femara, 2 injectables)-BFN
February 2010-Laparoscopy
4 months of Lupron
August 2010-IUI #5-BFN
October 2010-IUI #6-BFN
IVF #1 November 2010-BFN
IVF #2 March 2011-BFN
yeah i should have just left that part out, i threw an edit up there to try and clarify. i am just not thinking clearly right now. i just dunno what to think right now...i hope it's just that my body is f*d up and not another m/c. i don't think i could handle that right now...
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
I really hope it was just a fluke. I know my sanity can't handle another mc now either. HUGS!!
Do you think it could just be a blood clot mixed with dried mucus or something? I hope everything turns out alright and if you are pg that the spotting stops and the next pee stick says +
When is your next appt? Can you see your RE instead?
Hugs
Oh psych..this is awful.
First your MD is a douchcanoe for mixing up patients (but that comes from a woman who sees an RE who updated her on the wrong donor or a DE cycle)..I am so sorry you are in a panic. I want to come over and give you a big hug!
How big was it? I have passed clots as big as my fist and have never been pregnant. Here's hoping it is not a MC and just a weird clot thingy..
I'm so sorry for all this mental torture you're going through! I hope that it was just a horrible mix-up at the doctors' office and you're just having some random bleeding. I had a time when I just would not stop spotting and bleeding for weeks, and was passing huge clots... I was sure I was having a m/c and begged for a beta to check.
Thankfully it was negative and when they did a vag u/s they saw that my lining was irregular so I just kept spotting/bleeding while it tried to even itself out. They gave me Provera to force a full bleed to shed that lining and start over fresh. I hope you're experiencing something similar and not having another m/c. *big hugs*
I'm hopping that is exactly what is happening. Now that I am over the initial shock I'm convinced I over reacted ...everyone is allowed a crazy moment now and then right? Anyway I seem to be gushing red now which I didn't have with either of my loses (just the brown chunky stuff)...
Anyway, how are you feeling? Do you know what your having yet? You got pg around the sMe time as a good friend and she finds out tomorrow. I am really excited for you sweetie.
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
I don't think you overreacted... especially after your doctor led you down that path to begin with! I was so upset when it was happening to me, and even though I POAS and it came back negative I wanted the beta to confirm. All the what-if's and what-could-have-been's would have driven me crazy not knowing for sure.
You're sweet to think of me when you're dealing with all this. I'm doing pretty good, just tired and dealing with some insomnia. We had our anatomy scan on Friday, but baby is hiding behind my belly button so they couldn't get the views they needed... we go back on June 30th for another u/s since they still need to check on the heart, kidneys, and cord measurements too. Thanks for checking on me, hon! I hope this all gets settled out for you soon. *hugs*
12/99 - Miscarriage at 12w - 6/08 - BFP - Miscarriage at 8w, 9/08 - BFP - Miscarriage at 8w2d, 12/08 - Found out I am a carrier of a Balanced Translocation between Chromosomes 8 & 16, 8/2010 - DE IVF = FAIL. 12/18/10 - Surprise BFP! Awaiting our Sticky Miracle! 12/20 - Beta #1-1208 * 12/27 Beta #2 - 6002 1/3/11 Beta #3 - 17,146. Beautiful little heart beating away! Stick little one, stick!
♥ Brielle Skye born August 17th, 2011 ♥
::hugs::
I hope your DH comes back soon and you can figure out what is up.
TTC #2 since June '08
~*DD 10.21.07*~
dx unexplained
IUI #1-4 BFN
IVF#1 June 2011 BFN
IVF#2 Dec 2011
Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634
EDD 8/25
*PAIFW/SAIFW*
07/14/97 - Stillborn twins at 22 weeks
12/20/99 - Miscarriage #1 - 11 wks 4 days laproscopic surgery due to rupture of tube
07/01/01 - Divorced
05/30/09 - Re-married to a wonderful man!
11/11/09 - Miscarriage #2 - 10 wks 3 days, D&C
Dx: Unexplained
07/30/10 - 10/19/10 - IUI #1 - IUI #4 clomid cd2-6 + premarin cd7-13 + HCG Trigger=BFFN's
11/10/10 - IVF #1 Start stims ER#1 11/22, ER #2 11/24, ET 11/29=BFFN
03/14/11 - IVF #2 start stims, ER-03/26/11, ET-03/31/11, beta 04/08/11 = BFFN
05/16/11 - Hail Mary Cycle - Inj+TI =BFP!! 06/08/11 Beta #1 71.8, 06/10/11 Beta #2 201, U/S 6/20-1 sac. U/S 6/28 sac and hb of 118!!