cheating dreams

chuckiep

I have been having these crazy dreams on and off for a while now, where SO is with other girls and doesn't seem to care if I know or not. We've been having some problems lately, so maybe that is where this is coming from? Anyone else have this type of dream often?

sarahjames9

OMG, I just had one of these types of dreams last night myself. I was the one doing the cheating though!!! My husband and I aren't having any trouble, I think it is just raging hormones. I am super embarrassed about who I was with though, a family friend of mine and DH!!

KDC1014

I had a dream like this twice now and I know in my heart my DH would never cheat, but since I'm preggo I've been insecure and that has caused some drama, so I think that is where it's coming from. 

StefB28

During my first pregnancy, I had tons of crazy sex dreams- DH was sleeping with other women, I was sleeping with other men & I even had a dream where I was with another woman! It's just crazy hormones.

brokensmyl

My last pregnancy I had a couple dreams where DH cheated on me. This pregnancy I have had a few dreams where I was with other men.

A friend of mine said she would wake up crying all the time when she was pregnant because she kept having these dreams. I think it is just all of the hormones and being worried about the future. 

gsd mommy

Im always having dreams where one of us are cheating!!!!

cfitz16

sarahjames9:

OMG, I just had one of these types of dreams last night myself. I was the one doing the cheating though!!! My husband and I aren't having any trouble, I think it is just raging hormones. I am super embarrassed about who I was with though, a family friend of mine and DH!!

 

I have had this dream too.  So weird.

weddingbells2010

So glad you posted this because I felt like the only one! DH and I are not having any problems, and I know he would never cheat, but I think I feel guilty that I have absolutely NO sex drive lately and I'm secretly worried that not giving DH enough "attention" would cause him to cheat.  I know that would never happen, but these crazy hormone changes make you feel/think/dream the strangest things!

SugarQueen101

I had one of those dreams a few months ago...For me at least, I think that it's from me feeling insecure in our relationship & my changing body. Where I'm from, it's not uncommon for a guy to leave once you get pregnant or soon after the baby is born. I don't believe that he's one of those types of guys, but still it's in the back of my mind, especially when I feel insecure & vulnerable. Golly, pregnancy makes me feel so vulnerable. To top it off, DH is out of work & is having a hard time finding work, and this is adding stress to our marriage. Needless to say, I'm on my knees everyday, believing for a breakthrough & praying for our marriage.

reason00

I used to have these dreams when my husband and I were dating for only 6 months. It's insecurity, I think.

For me, I think it was that I didn't feel adequate enough in the relationship. He was soooo wonderful, and I probably felt I couldn't be as wonderful back. Nothing to keep him with me.

Maybe you feel guilty for some of the arguments/problems?

honeybee #1

I had one of these early on. I dreamed my DH was with a friend of ours who had just recently been cheated on! Like either of them would ever do anything like that. The bad part is that I wwoke up completely pissed off and was about to go off on  my husband before I realised it was just a dream.