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Send Good Thoughts Ladies...

swanckswanck
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This is a first for us- and we really aren't supposed to know.

But our caseworker called and said we are being 'shown' to a BM on Wed!!  And that she hopes to let me know by Friday what the outcome is.

Typically with this agency they don't tell you when you are being looked at.  But my caseworker had a question about it - so now we know!
I'm not sure how I feel about knowing. 

But I have peace - mostly because it's out of our hands.


If you would, say a prayer that the right decision will be made.  Even if it isn't us.

 

I'll keep you posted as I know.  

TIA.

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  • JanieJonesJanieJones
    I'm sending you all the good thoughts I can.  
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  • CheleChele member
    Much luck to you!
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  • lolo2011lolo2011

    Good thoughts your way!!!  I agree you want to know but you don't want to know! 

    I am glad you think the right decision may not be you.  I truely believe the right baby gets to the right parents.  We had a failed adoption that I did not know how I would get over or why she changed her mind.  I now have the perfect baby for us and I hope she is doing well parenting.

    Good luck!!!

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  • LadyRed7LadyRed7
    Good luck to you - keep us posted!
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  • Honeydew1894Honeydew1894
    How nerve-wracking! Good luck!
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  • AlliebooberzAlliebooberz member
    Sending you best wishes! Party!!!
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  • mdm2137mdm2137

    Sending you lots of good thoughts and luck!! :)


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
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  • Alicia_22Alicia_22
    Good Luck! 
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  • Patches08Patches08 member
    Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way!
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  • hillareehillaree
    Thinking of you - I can't wait for the next update!  I hope the week flies by for you :)
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  • inlovewithBinlovewithB
    Oh wow! Sending you GREAT thoughts :)
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  • Art TeacherArt Teacher

    Saying a prayer that things go well!

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  • summergirl79summergirl79 member
    Exciting news :-)! Sending good thoughts, please keep us posted!!! 
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  • militarywife2bmilitarywife2b
    Sending good thoughts
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending lots of good thoughts your way.

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  • farmweddinggirlfarmweddinggirl
    Oh yay!  I am excited for you.  Sending major good thoughts your way...
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  • artletzlerartletzler

    Good Luck!  Even you aren't chosen this time, it feels good to know that you're being shown and that one day you'll get "the call"!  Thinking positive thoughts for you :)

     

     

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