Success after IF

Yep, that's it :(

Beta dropped from 88 to 70, so I'm stopping everything and waiting to m/c. Would love to hear your stories if you feel like sharing. I've had an early chemical before, but it ended when AF was expected and I hardly noticed. Just wondering how long to expect before it passes and an guess as to when beta will drop to negative. This one stung pretty bad. I'm just ready to move on and hopefully come back fighting soon. Thanks for all your support ladies. I'm gonna pour a stiff drink and drown my sorrows ASAP :) So thankful for my sweet little boy.

Re: Yep, that's it :(

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  • I don't have any experience with that, but I wanted to say I'm sorry.  IF just sucks!  

    Enjoy your drink and your beautiful little boy. 

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  • Oh no, I'm so sorry :(
  • So sorry for your loss :(
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  • So much love and hugs to you....drink up friend!
  • I am so sorry.  I had an early m/c and it took awhile for my beta to drop at least 3wks but it was in the 300s at first.
  • I'm so very sorry :(
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  • so sorry.

    I've had several  c/p's with numbers around there. Once I stopped my massive PIO efforts, it was 2-4 days until spotting, cramping and for me, ironically, not that much bleeding.  I would suspect you'll have a fairly "normal" period and then be done. I've not "tested down" my betas, so no help there. I tend to have "fantom" pregnancy signs however, smells, boobs, etc. so have fun with that salt in the wound. (I suspect it's from my p4 levels changing)

    First round's on me. This blows.

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  • Ugh- I  am so sorry.  I would imagine that your levels will drop pretty fast since they are already trending down. Everyone's body is different though.  Pamper yourself this weekend and of course, hug the little one extra too!
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  • I am so sorry. 
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  • Just wanted to send my ((hugs)).
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  • I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you.
  • Yuck. I am so sorry.. Thinking of you.
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    I am so very sorry.
  • I am so sorry.  Hugs.
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  • i'm so sorry sweetie. (((hugs)))
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  • The cocktail is a good idea.  A bottle of wine accompanied by last beta when I had my c/p.

    This was my experience:  Beta dropped from 18 on Tuesday to 13 on Thursday, so I stopped my meds on Thursday.  (TMI warning)  I spotted a little on Saturday, but on Sunday I passed a big clot all at once (It came on without a warning - not like a normal period at all) and bled A LOT for about a week.  I'm not sure when my beta went down to 0 because it was so low to begin with.

    I'm so sorry you're going through this - I cried a lot for a few days to get it all out - the disappointment, the sadness, loss of hopefulness, the anger...but we're moving on and looking forward.  I've been trying to live in reality instead of what "should" have been, if that makes any sense.  It helps me to stay hopeful for next time.

    ((HUGS))

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  • I'm so sorry.  =(
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  • Just wanted to send some (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry hon, I hope it happens quickly so you can move on. Sending you big hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry hon.  No advice for your re: m/c.  When I had my chemical I was already bleeding through the progesterone so I knew it was over before the beta even dropped. Sad

    Thinking of you.

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  • (((huge hugs))) I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this.  It's such a terrible thing to expierence.  I spotted for about three days and then had heavy bleeding and passed what I think was the sack.  I had some cramping but luckily, it wasn't to bad, just really heavy bleeding.  My Beta reached around 1500 and took about a month or so to drop back to zero.

    Ugh, I wish you didn't have to go through this! I'm thinking about you.

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  • I'm so sorry :(
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  • I am so very sorry!  Damnit!
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  • So, so sorry for your loss and you WILL come back fighting.
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  • :( When I mc, I was already spotting when I got my low beta. A few days later, I started bleeding. My bleeding was like a really heavy period that lasted for about a week. I went in for a follow up beta 2 weeks later and it was back down to zero.
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  • Thank you for sharing your experiences and your sweet words. Hopefully, there won't be much to it since it was early. I appreciate all of your support more than you can imagine :) Feels a bit lonely in this boat, ya know?
  • I am so sorry.
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    So sorry sweetie! It took me exactly one week from the day I started full bleeding until it stopped...only a couple days were physically bad. This Sat at a month past m/c my Beta was at 2.5 (They started in the thousands so hopefully it won't be so long for you) so they stopped testing and we can move on. I hope for your sake, the physical symptoms come and go quickly so you can start to move on.
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