I had to file a restraining order against DH today

fairyfey10 · June 2011

Ladies, the drama does not seem to end for me right now. Last night after Xdh was supposed to be talking to Gwyn, he threatened me. I went today and filed a police report and then a restraining order. He is not getting visitation with DD either this weekend.

He is really mad that I have contacted a lawyer for the divorce. He has lost it I think. He really doesn't understand that there are consequences for his actions.

Hopefully tonight will be a little better for me. I was a train wreck last night and could not sleep

KYRN · June 2011

OMG. I'm so sorry, I hope you get some rest tonight. Hopefully xDH will get his head out of his ass.

ALY1981 · June 2011

I'm so sorry you are going through all of this!!!!!!

Quizzle · June 2011

Ugh, I'm sorry.

And please be very very careful.

Carrie25 · June 2011

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope everything calms down and you have a nice weekend.

alchris · June 2011

Oh no, I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your sweet little one.

fairyfey10 · June 2011

He is allowed to call once per day to talk to DD. He broke down crying when I told him that I was revoking his visitation for this weekend.

DavezWife · June 2011

I'm sorry you're going thru this. Hard stuff.

dana316 · June 2011

((((hugs))))

njdcgirl · June 2011

Holy moly! I'm sorry you have to be going through this. ((HUGS))

kme930 · June 2011

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I can't imagine. Do what you need to to take care of you and Gwyn. (((hugs)))

kimberic · June 2011

I'm sorry you're going through this. I can't imagine how you must be feeling.

I hope you have a better night and can get some rest.

LucyPevensie · June 2011

Ugh, so sorry to hear this. I hope at some point - when/if things calm down - you guys can get some co-parenting counseling so he can figure out how to be a good, divorced, co-parent (no threatening the other parent being a good place to start.)

fairyfey10 · June 2011

LucyPevensie:
Ugh, so sorry to hear this. I hope at some point - when/if things calm down - you guys can get some co-parenting counseling so he can figure out how to be a good, divorced, co-parent (no threatening the other parent being a good place to start.)

We were supposed to do this through the marriage counselor, but until dh gets himself under control and in a better place mentally I am not willing to be in the same room with him.

He doesn't even understand that this was hard on me or why he is being denied visitation right now. He can't understand that threatening people is not cool.

perry7285 · June 2011

oh my god. thank goodness you are done with this relationship! i hope that the restraining order helps you feel safer.

leslie&brian · June 2011

I'm so sorry you are going through this, but good for you for being strong and doing what is best for your LO. I'm glad that you got out of the relationship. I wish you the best. ((hugs))