Monkey & Philly

DavezWife

I'm just catching up today, and I wanted to apologize for missing your updates, and mostly to say how very very VERY sorry I am for your sad news.  I really am.

My thoughts are with you, and your family.  I seriously want to just kick something for ya. Both.

big hugs,

Trac

MonkeysGirl05

Thanks Tracie. I had a feeling the news would be bad yesterday, so I was sort of prepared, but it stull sux. Now I'm just "waiting" for nature to take it's course, and it is hard. I initially didn't want a D&C, but if this doesn't happen soon, I might call and ask for one. Ugh!

PhillySue

Thanks Tracie- just like Monkey I was also pretty prepared for this news.  It totally sux but I sort of "made my peace" with it last week.  I am crazy angry still but am ready to move and and keep fighting this fight. 

Monkey- I had my D&C yesterday (2nd D&C) for me.  I also thought about going natural but RE recommended the D&C so we could test the tissue.  Physically the D&C is really easy if you do decide to go that route. 

MonkeysGirl05

PhillySue:

Monkey- I had my D&C yesterday (2nd D&C) for me.  I also thought about going natural but RE recommended the D&C so we could test the tissue.  Physically the D&C is really easy if you do decide to go that route. 

Thanks for the input... I'm having a hard time deciding what to do. My RE didn't suggest testing the tissue, but offered it up as an option. He said it is usually a chromosomal abnormality when things end this early (also, my yolk sac was bigger than usual; also indicative of a chrom. abnormality). While I'm not as worried about the "why", I just can't stand the wait. I just want to get on with life and not think about the blighted ovum hanging out in my ute.