Childless not by choice

Living Child Free resources

Just putting this out there for what it's worth. DH and I were struggling to decide if we wanted to adopt, use donor options, or live child free so we saw a psychologist who specializes in this kind of stuff. She gave us a ton of books, websites, etc. - these are the ones related to Child Free living"

Living Child Free Books
Carter, Jean W., and Carter, Michael. Sweet Grapes: How to Stop Being Infertile and Start Living Again. Perspectives Press, 1998.

Tsigdinos, Pamela Mahoney. Silent Sorority: A Barren Woman Gets Busy, Angry, Lost and Found. BookSurge Publishing, 2009.


Living Child Free Websites
Coming 2 Terms ? www.coming2terms.com
Childless Not By Choice (bulletin boards) ? www.childlessnotbychoice.com

Would love to hear if you've found anything helpful.

Re: Living Child Free resources

  • Thank you for this! It's exactly what I was looking for. 
    (Live in Europe) TTC since 1/2010
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  • Yes, thank you. I'm still entertaining the small hopes of having a child but after not even getting through a medicated IUI cycle (X2) due to lack of response I'm really feeling hopeless and wondered if there was some reading material that would help me to come to terms with living childless. I know it will never be able to take the pain away but maybe some help. Today is a bad day so I will leave it at that.

    Thanks

    TTC since 2009 very frustrated 42yr and DH 40

    5 cycles of Clomid with satisfactory response=BFN's
    Fibroid removal Nov2010
    IUI Clomid #1 Feb 2011...BFN..damn it!
    IUI Inject's #2 Apr 2011...CANCELLED...low estradiol
    IUI Inject's #3 June 2011...BFN
    IUI Inject's #4 Sept2011...BFFN
    Lap Dec 2011...severe endo..cyst removed..some remains...
    IVF#1 Apr 2012 ....cancelled due to over suppression
    IVF#2 July 2012....6 follies...only 1 retrieved....BFFN
    surgery suggested to move ovary to an better placement but....we moved two time zones away and are financially and emotionally empty

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