Just putting this out there for what it's worth. DH and I were struggling to decide if we wanted to adopt, use donor options, or live child free so we saw a psychologist who specializes in this kind of stuff. She gave us a ton of books, websites, etc. - these are the ones related to Child Free living"
Living Child Free Books
Carter, Jean W., and Carter, Michael. Sweet Grapes: How to Stop Being Infertile and Start Living Again. Perspectives Press, 1998.
Tsigdinos, Pamela Mahoney. Silent Sorority: A Barren Woman Gets Busy, Angry, Lost and Found. BookSurge Publishing, 2009.
Living Child Free Websites
Coming 2 Terms ? www.coming2terms.com
Childless Not By Choice (bulletin boards) ? www.childlessnotbychoice.com
Would love to hear if you've found anything helpful.
Re: Living Child Free resources
Yes, thank you. I'm still entertaining the small hopes of having a child but after not even getting through a medicated IUI cycle (X2) due to lack of response I'm really feeling hopeless and wondered if there was some reading material that would help me to come to terms with living childless. I know it will never be able to take the pain away but maybe some help. Today is a bad day so I will leave it at that.
Thanks
5 cycles of Clomid with satisfactory response=BFN's
Fibroid removal Nov2010
IUI Clomid #1 Feb 2011...BFN..damn it!
IUI Inject's #2 Apr 2011...CANCELLED...low estradiol
IUI Inject's #3 June 2011...BFN
IUI Inject's #4 Sept2011...BFFN
Lap Dec 2011...severe endo..cyst removed..some remains...
IVF#1 Apr 2012 ....cancelled due to over suppression
IVF#2 July 2012....6 follies...only 1 retrieved....BFFN
surgery suggested to move ovary to an better placement but....we moved two time zones away and are financially and emotionally empty