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And just to rub salt on an open wound...

babyonemoretimebabyonemoretime
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Why in the world does this have to suck so bad?!?! I go tomorrow morning to schedule my D&C and we are in the process of switching from DH's old insurance with his previous employer to his new insurance with his current employer... Only problem? Old insurance policy is already terminated, and new one will be in effect on Tuesday at the very earliest. :( What'd I do to deserve this?? Any of it? I already feel slightly betrayed by God for the miscarriage, but now it has to be drawn out another week...or longer?! I am so angry and sad and discouraged. :( Sorry to be a downer, but DH is just as angry, sad, and discouraged as I am, and he just gets depressed even more when I vent. I just need a good cyber hug...and maybe a drink.
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    williams4mewilliams4me member

    Oh no....I'm so sorry! This is such a tough thing to get through without all the bumps in the road we hit along the way.

    Big ((((Hugs)))) to you and here your go... Drinks Beer i'll join ya on the drink..

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    GraceInCAGraceInCA member
    So very sorry about that. That's horrible.

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    mfpickle25mfpickle25
    I am so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you can get scheduled the same day the new insurance begins. Until then big (HUGS)
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    kate626kate626
    I am so sorry that sounds just terrible! I hope you can get it scheduled soon hun.... Hang in there and {{{BIG*HUGS}}}
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    Missa_gMissa_g member
    I am so sorry*huge hug* The bumps we run into can make everything seem so much worse. We're here for you.
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    BFP #2 Medicated cycle, twin boys born 4/4/12 at 29w4d
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    yuengling58yuengling58

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    FWIW, you can retroactively elect COBRA coverage. It'll probably be $500+ for the month, but that's cheaper than a D&C.

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    jerryliljessjerryliljess member
    ((HUGS)) and here's an e-drink on me!  BeerDrinks
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    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
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    babyonemoretimebabyonemoretime
    Thanks ladies. It's not been an easy week. The hugs and support help. :)
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    LDW80LDW80
    Huge hugs! That is awful to have to wait longer.
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    Allieb303Allieb303 member
    I am so sorry for your loss and I am also so sorry that you have to wait. I know that the ladies here are very supportive and are good listeners and a great support system. Keep us all updated and hopefully this week will go by quickly so you can begin the healing process.
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