So, DH is pretty adamant about not telling anyone until after our first Dr.'s appt. which is not until July! But we will be seeing both his mom and my family the next 2 weekends in a row, and the 2nd weekend we are helping my parents move! How can I not tell my parents but not do any heavy lfiting in the moving process? Any ideas???
Re: How do I not tell?
we've only told a couple really close friends, my 2 sisters and one of DH's brothers. My sisters because I was visiting them in person and won't seem them again for awhile and his brother because that brother asks DH every time they talk if he's gotten me KU yet. The friends that knew were the ones that were supporting me through my IF and IUI cycle (the ones on hold for giving me my trigger shot cuz no way I was doing that myself).
I realize you didn't ask for all that, but there you go.
For you... You could fake a back or hammy injury. Tell them it's nothing bad, but you tweaked it and are keeping an eye on it and taking it easy. You'll go to the Dr. if it doesn't clear up in a few days, etc... If they ask how you can hint that it might be related to sex and they should back off
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LOL-that might do the trick!
This, for the most part, but also because we know once we tell MIL she will tell EVERYONE. Their whole family has no privacy or barriers. They all share everything. We got a call a few weeks ago about DH's 2nd cousin, and her constipation issues. Really? Really?
That aside, DH does not want to tell my family and then not his. He doesn't think that's "fair." And I totally get that, it's not fair. But it's also not fair that we can't trust her to keep a freakin' secret.
I think I am going to tell my little sister in Madagascar first. I am pretty sure that she can keep it quiet, being that she is on a whole different continent
My MIL can't hold water either and that was the only reason I dreaded telling her - at 4 weeks I am not ready for the world to know!! We told them Friday and saw them again today. I think she mentioned 4 times that she hasn't told ANYONE yet, I think she's pretty proud of herself! Now if she can just keep that up for another 2 months or so, we should be all set!
It's really hard not to tell and I was kind of relieved to share with my mom so we could start talking baby stuff
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