SO annoyed with my husband right now.

BubblyToes

He's out of town at a bachelor party.  He's the best man in this wedding, and has been planning this forever.  I talked to him at 4 yesterday and he was already wasted.  I tried repeatedly to get in touch with him last night, W wanted to tell him about his t-ball party.  No answer.  He finally called at 1:30.  It appears he passed out at 5.  Seriously?  You are 31 freaking years old.  You were planning and organizing this whole party and you miss the freaking night?  Idiot.

No, I don't expect him to be in touch with me at all times, but it would have been nice for him to at least have been reachable.  I'm all for going out and having a good time, but to pass out at freaking 5pm?  Seriously??  

r9stedt

Nest ate my reply.

Laugh at him at the wedding.

And, yes, I would be annoyed if I couldn't get in touch with him either.

belle204

Wow. I'd be mad, too. Um, did anyone there notice he was "missing" all night.

Zenya

eh - this is why I don't call my DH when he's away!  I like a "Got here safe" and  'I woke up' text.  That's it.  

wellfleet04

Zenya:

eh - this is why I don't call my DH when he's away!  I like a "Got here safe" and  'I woke up' text.  That's it.  

This. It's embarrassing, but I wouldn't be annoyed unless I needed to reach him for something serious and couldn't. Otherwise, I'd just laugh at how pathetic he was

DandRAgain

wellfleet04:

Zenya:

eh - this is why I don't call my DH when he's away!  I like a "Got here safe" and  'I woke up' text.  That's it.  

This. It's embarrassing, but I wouldn't be annoyed unless I needed to reach him for something serious and couldn't. Otherwise, I'd just laugh at how pathetic he was

Yep..this....I can't imagine TRYING to reach him when you already knew he was wasted...what kind of conversation would W have (if DH had answered) when he was already drunk.  I'd laugh about it...he's the kid at the slumber party who fell asleep first....teaseworthy, yes, worth the energy to be angry? Probably not.  And if it had been an emergency you probably could have called a friend, the hotel, something to get in touch..but it wasn't.

Jodi&Joe

These are the kinds of things that irritate me too, irrationally! 

Honestly, it could have been ME passed out at 5pm on a girls weekend.  And Joe would laugh about it - not be angry at me.  I try to reciprocate that every now and then.

I'm quite sure you can throw 'em back with the best of them so it's not entirely too far fetched to think that maybe, if the conditions were right (ie. tired, stressed, drank too much, etc) that you could have yourself passed out like this.  Cut him some slack!

Not to say I wouldn't be posting the same exact thing you are - because I would.  But I would also know it's irrational and I would need to get over it!    Best medicine for that -- totally razz him about it in front of his friends at the wedding.  "Yea, poor little Markie can't hold his liquor anymore!"

Goose51504

Tell M he is getting old and that it's hella lame for the best man to miss the bachelor party. I know it's annoying, but he's a guy; a guy who apparently still thinks he can "hang." I imgaine he'll pace himself today.

Hopefully, he'll call W today and talk with him. I can't imagine how that convo would have gone down last night. I pray that you would have recorded it.  LOL

j-w

That kind of stuff totally grates on me.  You have every right to be annoyed.  That stuff can still be a lot of fun without going overboard. 

BubblyToes

Thanks ladies for both the validating me and making me realize how dumb I was.  LOL

Hopefully he will pace himself today.  Or he's really going to get hell by these guys.

EdithBouvierBeale

BubblyToes:

Thanks ladies for both the validating me and making me realize how dumb I was.  LOL

Hopefully he will pace himself today.  Or he's really going to get hell by these guys.

what if they draw a sharpie penis on his face? isn't that the typical penalty?

would we celebrate that or would we be mad?

I want to say it would be a goooood thing... but in the wedding pics...eh...he'd need some makeup

BubblyToes

If he gets a sharpie penis on his face, I will be seriously pissed off if they don't send me the pic so I can make it his FB profile pic.

Jodi&Joe

I know someone who got their eyebrow shaved when passed out.

Jamaica_Bride

Just think of it this way- he looks like a pussssss to his friends (lmfao) and you KNOW he didn't see any boobies.

EdithBouvierBeale

Jamaica_Bride:

Just think of it this way- he looks like a pussssss to his friends (lmfao) and you KNOW he didn't see any boobies.

yeah- I think the boobs don't usually come out until at LEAST 6:30...

lol.

Jamaica_Bride

Boobies before 8 pm is just creepy anyhoo.

 

Unless they are mine, of course.

EdithBouvierBeale

Jamaica_Bride:

Boobies before 8 pm is just creepy anyhoo.

 

Unless they are mine, of course.

senior citizen boobs come out earlier, huh? after dinner at old country buffet and before matlock and bed by 8:30.