I just want to cry

sabrina69barnes

I'm spotting and cramping now and I feel pretty confident that I'm miscarrying. I'll have my second betas drawn tomorrow but I wont have the the numbers until Tuesday because of the holiday. I've decided to just be in the wedding and try not to get to close to anyone. The idea of losing another baby is heartbreaking but I would feel even worse if I missed the wedding on top of another miscarriage.

I called to tell the bride this. She is usually a very understanding friend and not at all a bridezilla but she wasn't very supportive at all. I explained what was going on and that I would just be in the wedding. The rehersal was tonight and I missed it. She pointed that out and said it was fine if I wanted to be in the wedding again but not to change my mind because she cried a lot. WTF? I'm possibly losing another child and all she could foucus on was her. I understand it's her wedding and I'm going to try not to be bitter about that but yeah, ouch. I'm still going to be a good friend to her even if she isn't being one to me right now.

Hopefully I wont be in much pain and will be able to get through the wedding. She will be really pissed if I end up needing to go the the ER and do have to miss the wedding.  AF was due today so hopefully this will just be like getting AF. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers ladies. I know it's not over yet but I'm thinking I'll be moving back over to TTCAL soon.

Manderlin923

"She will be really pissed if I end up needing to go to the ER and do have to miss the wedding."

I'm sorry, but she doesn't sound like a very good friend. I'm sorry she wasn't supportive. Wishing you the best and I will keep you in my thoughts.

((HUGS))

 

lavril

Lots of T&P are with you!

sabrina69barnes

Manderlin923:

"She will be really pissed if I end up needing to go to the ER and do have to miss the wedding."

I'm sorry, but she doesn't sound like a very good friend. I'm sorry she wasn't supportive. Wishing you the best and I will keep you in my thoughts.

((HUGS))

 

She normally is a great friend and very supportive. This isn't at all like her.

Junebug060609

I'm really really hoping its not what you think it is that's going on. 

Wishing you the best of luck this weekend with the 'friends' wedding.  While I understand that the moments right before ones wedding are stressful...a m/c or issues with a pregnancy would trump a grown woman who can't get over herself. 

 

jldubb0626

((HUGE HUGS)) I'm so sorry. My T&P's are with you!

luvmyducks

I'm sorry you are feeling this way, but just remember, a lot of girls spot and cramping is very normal during early pg.  I had AF like cramps almost through the entire 1st Tri.  I hope it's not what you think it is.

 

((hugs)) 

rock-elle

I'm sorry, I know it's her wedding and all, but she is acting like a cvnt..  I truly hope that this is not what you think it is. Keep us posted.

thewayiam

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. First, I really hope you're not m/cing. I understand your 'friend' is focussed on her wedding right now, but she is being a b!tch. One thing I've learned since my loss is that people who I thought were good friends don't deserve to be in that category anymore, even if previously I thought they were good friends. I hope you manage to get through the weekend, and please let us know what happens. My T&P are with you.

Izabella22

T&Ps that its not what you think. Good luck dealing with the bridezilla. What a hag.

ellebelle2384

I really hope it's not what you think. I'm sorry that you have to have such pressure from your friend on top of it. T&P with you this weekend.

karma79

Sending many T&P ur way!

StephK86

I am so sorry hun. Listen you need to focus on yourself right now. Do not worry about how this so called "friend" might react if you miss her wedding. If she is anything but understanding then she is a tool. You are going through something that is hard and just need to do whatever it is that will make YOU feel the most comfortable. I think this girl is acting like a real jerk and hopefully she is just caught up in her wedding and will later realize how wrong her actions were.

I hope everything is o.k. with you and baby. I spotted twice for the first two months and cramped when AF was due.

Mrs.Albie

I'm so sorry - I really hope that everything works out for your pregnancy.  Its good of you to participate in the wedding, considering what you're dealing with, but remember to take care of yourself first.  If you need to make a trip to the ER, don't think for a second about how its going to bother your friend the bride.  We never want to disappoint our friends and family, but this situation is an exception.  ((hugs))  All the best...

gina&dave07

I am so sorry you are going through this.  I really hope that everything is ok with you and your LO.  T&P for you!

opallover

Junebug060609:

I'm really really hoping its not what you think it is that's going on. 

Wishing you the best of luck this weekend with the 'friends' wedding.  While I understand that the moments right before ones wedding are stressful...a m/c or issues with a pregnancy would trump a grown woman who can't get over herself. 

 

This exactly. I hope all goes well. *hugs* I hope it's not what you think.

PrincessDi80

((HUGS)) and gives the to your friend

MommyandKate

I'm really sorry- I hope everything goes well.

Froggy76

I'm so sorry you're going through this.  I'll be thinking of you.  Your friend is being a jerk, but she is probably also very stressed and not thinking clearly.  Hopefully in a few weeks she'll realize how badly she treated you.  ((HUGS))