Am I that transparent?

nekillo

Haha, well this morning I posted how DH's friend figured us out.

Well I just got home from work... I work many differetnt schools, don't have "regular coworkers" that I see daily.  There is one lady I work with in 14 different distrits, so I see her at least once a week.  She figured us out too!  She said I "looked different" last Friday, and she was going to ask me then; but wasn't sure.  Then I had to send out an email saying I couldn't meet with teh other teachers next Tuesday cuz I had a dr. appt in Green Bay.  The first thing this teacher asked me after our meeting today was, "so why are you going to the doctor next week?" 

I decided to come clean to her.  (she was ultimately the MOST supportive person during my loss, and gave me the courage to try again (she has 6 kids but was pregnant 11 times).  Her attitude really helped me so I am glad I was able to tell her in person before the end of the school year.  She is sworn to secrecy until next fall when I come clean to everyone else at work..

But dang, two people figuring me out in 2 days!  I didn't think I was showing that much but maybe my secret won't be safe for long! 

EricaK28

I have had one person figure me out at work also and they are sworn to secrecy untill I am 12 weeks and decide to tell everyone. I am sorry you have had 2 people figure you out. I have had 2 other people ask if I am pregnant and I said no I am fat thanks.

hart0620

I feel like if people know about your loss they are always watching you.  Both times we have announced since our first loss we have gotten reactions like, "called it" or "I knew that was coming" or "are you sick, or pregnant?"

I am surprised that they are coming right out and asking you though.  Pretty bold. 

MommyandKate

She sounds like a great lady- I'm glad she's so supportive.