Pregnant after a Loss

Update and goodbye

I wanted to let everyone know how grateful I am for the support I have received on this board. I have left this board before and am doing so again, although I don't think I will be returning.

At my u/s they saw that the baby stopped growing sometime last week. They are trying to get me into a good place for a D&E tomorrow. Apparently if I have cramping or increase bleeding I have to have DH drive me into Boston. They are also going to run some genetic tests as we have had 2 blighted ovums and Nicholas' unexplained loss (his cells didn't grow to give answers). 

At this point I am a bit in shock and thinking this is genetic and that DS is our miracle. Right now I think we are done and will be looking to adopt if we decide on another child. We are devastated and just unsure of where we are emotionally. 

I wish you all the best with your pregnancies. 

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Baby Boy loved for 15 weeks, 5/31/11
Baby Girl loved for 16.5 weeks. 3/1/12
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  • I am soo sorry!!!! (Hugs)
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  • I am so very sorry for your losses.  My heart hurts for you.  (((hugs)))


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    BFP #3 1.18.11 - natural M/C 5w1d
    BFP #4 5.6.11 - 13dpo: hcg 68, p 16.3; 16dpo: hcg 211,
    p16.6; 18dpo: hcg 416, p 15.6; 25dpo: hcg 6,007
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    BFP #5 4.28.13 - LO due 1/4/14

  • Oh hon, I am so so sorry  :(  Sooo unfair.

    ((giant hugs)) And GL with whatever you and your DH decide to do. 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for you and your family.  T&Ps for all of you during this very difficult time.
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  • OMG hun, I am so, so so sorry. I am literally crying here for you. I simply do not know what to say, except that I am praying so hard for you to get through this with strength. Please PM me if you need to talk -- I also had a later D&E, and I am here for you for any questions about the procedure or recovery.
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  • I am so sorry!!!! Sending you and DH lots of T&Ps,
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  • Oh my G-d, I am so so so sorry.  (((Huge Hugs))) to you and your family.  

    If you every have any questions about adoption from a child's perspective, please PM me.  My brother and I were adopted after my parent's 7 year struggle with infertility, and I would be happy to answer any questions that you may have. 

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  • My heart is totally breaking for you.  So incredibly unfair, there just are no words.

    I hope your D&E goes smoothly and they are able to give you some answers.  Wishing you all of the best for the future regardless of which path you guys choose. 

    (((HUGE hugs)))

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  • I am so, so sorry.  My heart is breaking for you.

    ((HUGS))

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  • I am so incredibly sorry.  I hope that the tests give you some answers.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.. sending hugs your way.Left HugRight Hug
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss! You will certainly be in my thoughts and prayers. Know that we will be thinking about you! HUGS
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  • Words can't express how sorry I am. I can't believe you're going through this again. My heart breaks for you. My thoughts are prayers are with you, and I hope you find peace with whatever decision you make about the future.

    ((((HUGS)))) God, life is so unfair sometimes.

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  • I am so sorry. ((Hugs))
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  • I don't even know what to say except that I am so sorry that you are going through this.  This is so unfair.  I hope that you are able to get some answers, and I am also sending T&Ps that you are able to find peace in whatever decisions you make.

    ((((HUGS))))

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    My heart aches for you. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your D&E goes as well as can be expected. :::hugs:::

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    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your DH.
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    OMG hun, I am so, so so sorry. I am literally crying here for you. I simply do not know what to say, except that I am praying so hard for you to get through this with strength. Please PM me if you need to talk -- I also had a later D&E, and I am here for you for any questions about the procedure or recovery.

    You have a PM. My head is spinning so I hope it makes sense. 

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  • Oh hon I am so very sorry. I hope you can find some peace in whatever decision you make, it is what is right for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. *HUGS*

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  • I just want to say how sorry I am. Hugs to you!
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  • I am so sorry.  Just know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  I pray for strength and I pray for answers for you! 
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    I'm so sorry!
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  • Oh no.  I am so, so sorry.  I hope you find the strength to get through this.  I wish you luck deciding what path you'll take in the future.  ((HUGS))
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  • ((Huge hugs)) I am so very sorry. It's so unfair that you are going through this again. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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    =(  I am so very sorry for your loss.  It just isn't fair.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and I send you and your DH the best wishes when you both come to a decision about adding to your family.
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  • I am so incredibly sorry.  I wish I could say or do something to make you feel better, but I'm just at a loss.  I'm so heartbroken for you and your family.  Lots of positive vibes coming your way.  ((((((HUGS))))))
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    I am so so sorry for your loss. T & P to you and your family.

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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Please take care of yourself.  I'll keep your family in my thoughts.
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    I am so, so sorry sweetie.  (((HUGE HUGS)) to you, YH and your DS.  My thoughts are with all of your during the difficult time.

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  • I'm so very sorry (((hugs))) - my heart is breaking for you!
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  • Oh hun, I am so sorry.  My heart breaks for you.  ((((((HUGS))))))  This is not fair. I hope you get your answers.  You will be in my thoughts.
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  • I am so very sorry :(
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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your losses. I can't wrap my brain around why things like this happen. ((hugs to you))
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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.  Life can be so cruel and unfair sometimes.  ((Hugs))
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    I am so, so sorry and I wish you and your family all the luck in the world as you decide what the next steps should be. T&P to you and your family as you you go through this. 
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  • I am so so so sorry for your loss.  Sending thoughts, prayers, & hugs.
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  • I'm truly so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the pain you must be experiencing at this moment.  You will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers and I send you all the strength in the world, to help with this loss.  I'm sure everyone on this board will be thinking of you.
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  • oh no....this is awful news. my prayers are with you and your DH and also your DS. there arent words to make it better. prayers.
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