I wanted to let everyone know how grateful I am for the support I have received on this board. I have left this board before and am doing so again, although I don't think I will be returning.
At my u/s they saw that the baby stopped growing sometime last week. They are trying to get me into a good place for a D&E tomorrow. Apparently if I have cramping or increase bleeding I have to have DH drive me into Boston. They are also going to run some genetic tests as we have had 2 blighted ovums and Nicholas' unexplained loss (his cells didn't grow to give answers).
At this point I am a bit in shock and thinking this is genetic and that DS is our miracle. Right now I think we are done and will be looking to adopt if we decide on another child. We are devastated and just unsure of where we are emotionally.
I wish you all the best with your pregnancies.
Nicholas loved for 28 weeks, 4/11/10
Re: Update and goodbye
BFP #1 6.17.10 - natural M/C 5w2d
BFP #2 8.4.10 - missed M/C, D&C 8w
BFP #3 1.18.11 - natural M/C 5w1d
BFP #4 5.6.11 - 13dpo: hcg 68, p 16.3; 16dpo: hcg 211,
p16.6; 18dpo: hcg 416, p 15.6; 25dpo: hcg 6,007
DS born 1/30/12
BFP #5 4.28.13 - LO due 1/4/14
Oh hon, I am so so sorry
Sooo unfair.
((giant hugs)) And GL with whatever you and your DH decide to do.
July 2007 m/c 6 weeks
November 2010 m/c 7 weeks 1 day
MTHFR (Compound hetero with copies of A & C)
DD #1 born 9/07 ** DD #2 born 7/11 ** Operation Take Back My Body has begun 10/11
Upcoming Races
Gobble Wobble 5K 11/24/11 - Abington, PA 29:40
Superbowl 10K 02/05/12 - Allentown, PA 54:28 PR!!!!
Broad Street 10 Mile Run 05/06/12 - Philadelphia, PA 1:30:44
Rock and Roll Half Marathon 09/16/12 - Philadelphia, PA
Philadelphia (Half?!?) Marathon 11/18/12 - Philadelphia, PA
BFP #1 - 04/09/10 -- m/c - 07/02/10 @ 20weeks and 3 days. D&C 07/02/2010 - EDD 11/16/10
BFP #2 12/17/10 please stick turtle. EDD 8/29/11 - Emergency C-Section 7-2-11. Andrew's journey
Congratulations to my TTCAL buddy Carolee on her BFP! Stick, baby!
Congratulations to elbandas09, cherylanddoug, tctibbe(MsPegees) and alliejoe for their take home babies!
Oh my G-d, I am so so so sorry. (((Huge Hugs))) to you and your family.
If you every have any questions about adoption from a child's perspective, please PM me. My brother and I were adopted after my parent's 7 year struggle with infertility, and I would be happy to answer any questions that you may have.
My heart is totally breaking for you. So incredibly unfair, there just are no words.
I hope your D&E goes smoothly and they are able to give you some answers. Wishing you all of the best for the future regardless of which path you guys choose.
(((HUGE hugs)))
BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11
BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14
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I am so, so sorry. My heart is breaking for you.
((HUGS))
I am so incredibly sorry. I hope that the tests give you some answers.
{HUGS}
Words can't express how sorry I am. I can't believe you're going through this again. My heart breaks for you. My thoughts are prayers are with you, and I hope you find peace with whatever decision you make about the future.
((((HUGS)))) God, life is so unfair sometimes.
BFP#1 5.27.10 DS became an angel at 21 weeks on 9.22.10
BFP#2 4.16.11 Healthy baby girl born 12.14.11
BFP#3 9.3.12 A healthy, bouncing baby SISTER on the way! EDD 5.12.13
I don't even know what to say except that I am so sorry that you are going through this. This is so unfair. I hope that you are able to get some answers, and I am also sending T&Ps that you are able to find peace in whatever decisions you make.
((((HUGS))))
My heart aches for you. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your D&E goes as well as can be expected. :::hugs:::
Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
01/11 = BFP!
Finnegan Alexander born 9/25/11 via emergency c-section
You have a PM. My head is spinning so I hope it makes sense.
Baby Boy loved for 15 weeks, 5/31/11
Baby Girl loved for 16.5 weeks. 3/1/12
Oh hon I am so very sorry. I hope you can find some peace in whatever decision you make, it is what is right for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. *HUGS*
DD#1 9-4-04 *** DD#2 10-15-07
BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
BFP#4 7-30-11 *EDD 4/8/12 ~ DD#3 born 4/4/12
Two angel babies 11/09 and 4/10
BFP 1: 3/19/10 Loss: 7/9/10
BFP 2: 12/28/10
My Blog: Losing Sylvia
BFP 12/05/10 (EDD 8/8/11), empty gestational sac 12/31/10, natural miscarriage 01/05/11
BFP 03/03/11, EDD 11/09/11, We love you so much already, our sweet little munchkin!!!
*Congrats to buddies MrsAtch, cflocco, MommyandKate, luckylady55, opallover, trishiepoo, stephsteph77, and Pachita! Praying for healthy babies for all of you!*
*Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
*Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
DS1 Jan 2012
DS2 July 2013
DS3 February 2016
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DC#2 born silent at 22 weeks 1.11.11
Dc#3 born vbac 1/2012 <bra DC#4 born VBAC 3/2014
DD #1 born 9/07 ** DD #2 born 7/11 ** Operation Take Back My Body has begun 10/11
Upcoming Races
Gobble Wobble 5K 11/24/11 - Abington, PA 29:40
Superbowl 10K 02/05/12 - Allentown, PA 54:28 PR!!!!
Broad Street 10 Mile Run 05/06/12 - Philadelphia, PA 1:30:44
Rock and Roll Half Marathon 09/16/12 - Philadelphia, PA
Philadelphia (Half?!?) Marathon 11/18/12 - Philadelphia, PA