A friend and I were carpooling to work this morning and stopped for coffee on the way (early morning and long drive). I adore coffee and typically get all the caffeine I can get. Well, I ordered a decaf iced coffee and after about 5 seconds she looks at me and asks, "Did you just order decaf? Is there something you need to tell me?". She knew we were TTC, M/C, and TTC again, so it wasn't too surprising that she figured it out.
Now, I just need to remember not to order coffee around anyone who really knows me, and who I don't want to know I'm pregnant yet.
Legal - it looks like today is just the day for food and drinks to out us. ![]()
Re: My coffee order outed me
Yeah, I've been ordering decaf too since before I started IVF. Fortunately, no one is ever with me.
IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer
Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
**P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**
This. One cup of coffee a day is a necessity for me, unless I were to have high bp or something.
Started TTC 05.08
Me: Stage II endo, borderline high FSH
DH: perfect
1 lap, 5 IUIs = 4 BFNs and 1 c/p
2 IVFs, 2 FETs = 1 BFN, 1 c/p, 1 ectopic and finally a sticky BFP in May 2011!
1 FET in Aug 2013 = BFP!