January 2012 Moms

My coffee order outed me

A friend and I were carpooling to work this morning and stopped for coffee on the way (early morning and long drive). I adore coffee and typically get all the caffeine I can get. Well, I ordered a decaf iced coffee and after about 5 seconds she looks at me and asks, "Did you just order decaf? Is there something you need to tell me?". She knew we were TTC, M/C, and TTC again, so it wasn't too surprising that she figured it out.

Now, I just need to remember not to order coffee around anyone who really knows me, and who I don't want to know I'm pregnant yet.

Legal - it looks like today is just the day for food and drinks to out us. ;)

Re: My coffee order outed me

  • I'm so paranoid about this- I go out for coffee every Sunday morning with my friends so I've been ordering a short (super small size) and then sipping on it for a while, and throwing out the rest. Terrible waste of money, but what am I going to do?!? I've been doing this for a while since I couldn't have caffeine when I was having fertility treatments either... Embarrassed
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  • Yeah, I've been ordering decaf too since before I started IVF.  Fortunately, no one is ever with me. 

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • kle0113kle0113 member
    I can't give up my morning coffee!  It is the only thing I drink with caffeine.  I drink water all day and night. 
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  • imagekle0113:
    I can't give up my morning coffee!  It is the only thing I drink with caffeine.  I drink water all day and night. 

    This. One cup of coffee a day is a necessity for me, unless I were to have high bp or something. 

    Married 08.06
    Started TTC 05.08
    Me: Stage II endo, borderline high FSH
    DH: perfect
    1 lap, 5 IUIs = 4 BFNs and 1 c/p
    2 IVFs, 2 FETs = 1 BFN, 1 c/p, 1 ectopic and finally a sticky BFP in May 2011!

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    1 FET in Aug 2013 = BFP! 

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