May as well...

gemmaschenk

Introduce myself, since I have been posting recently.

My name is Gemma, I am 22. I was in a relationship with Mike who is the sperm donar of my five year old son, and my unborn daughter.

To make a VERY long story short...he was an abusive f*ckhole. He hit me, and was very controlling/rude/mean/abusive, to my five year old. Our relationship ended in 2010 a little after christmas after I found out he had taken my son to see the nasty drug using wh0re he was cheating on me with. I haven't seen or talked to him since.

I thinks personally that its sad it took me sooo long to get rid of his useless a$s...I should have made him kick rocks long ago. I guess I held on so long because I wanted to have the "family". I found out in the end that family isn't always worth the pain that may come along...and that real family shouldn't be like that. It especially hurts to hear how often my son has been bringing up how mean his dad was recently...it breaks my heart that I let it happen...to both of us.

Mike is NOT allowed to see either of the children, and I have a no contact order against him to make things a little easier for me to breathe.

I look forward to getting to know you ladies...because I don't plan on getting into a relationship ever again...I just don't think it's worth it.

hurricanepayne89

I'm not a single parent, but I think I may turn here for support (FI and I fight a lot). I definitely know what you mean about wanting a "family," I think it's the reason I haven't left also. I'm sorry you've had to deal with this. You have a handsome little boy there and I'm sure a precious little girl I treasure every moment I have with my baby girl, regardless of how I feel about her Daddy at a given time. If I ever decide to leave, I will say that he did at least one good thing for me - gave me my precious daughter. Remember that. Even if it was a mistake, it's the best mistake that was ever made. Everything we struggle or hurt through makes us stronger and wiser in the end You are stronger now for leaving and wiser in knowing what *not* to do next time. 

PrincessFiona9

I can understand the mixed feelings about staying with a loser for so long. I know that I stayed with EX for so long because he had me brainwashed to think no one else would ever love me etc. I won't get all into it, but just don't let what he did to you make you close yourself off from other relationships/opportunities in the future. After being single for a year I met a great guy who I've been with for going on 4 months. Just don't give up hope for your future.

gemmaschenk

lurkylulu:

Your ticker is large and annoying.

 

And your point would be? Because if you want I can ALWAYS make it a hell of a lot bigger.

gemmaschenk

lurkylulu:

gemmaschenk:

lurkylulu:

Your ticker is large and annoying.

 

And your point would be? Because if you want I can ALWAYS make it a hell of a lot bigger.

Honey, that "preg bar" is klassy. Are you sure you don't belong on baby gaga? Your backstory makes me think you'd fit in better there.

 

You can think whatever you want to...good thing I don't let stupid people's opinions bother me. By the way...learn how to spell. If I had wanted your dumba$$ remarks, I would have made a post that said "stupid annoying rude people..post here please". Go back into the hole you came out of.

gemmaschenk

lurkylulu:

gemmaschenk:

lurkylulu:

gemmaschenk:

lurkylulu:

Your ticker is large and annoying.

 

And your point would be? Because if you want I can ALWAYS make it a hell of a lot bigger.

Honey, that "preg bar" is klassy. Are you sure you don't belong on baby gaga? Your backstory makes me think you'd fit in better there.

 

You can think whatever you want to...good thing I don't let stupid people's opinions bother me. By the way...learn how to spell. If I had wanted your dumba$$ remarks, I would have made a post that said "stupid annoying rude people..post here please". Go back into the hole you came out of.

The term "klassy" is the white trash version of classy, or you. Also, please learn the correct use of ellipses.  

 

Why do you even bother posting on this or any board when you're just a pissy b!tch? I'm sure if anyone wanted to hear the bull crap that you like to spout, they would specifically ask. Until then, please shut your mouth. I hate that you would think this type of bullsh!t is okay, when this is supposed to be a support board for single mothers. Just because you have something perpetually stuck up your a$$, doesn't mean you need to take it out on everyone around you. Until you have something worthwhile to say, shut the hell up.