Parenting after a Loss

FVCK FVCK FVCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DH just lost his job. The company shut down this afternoon.

Were fvcking screwed. I'm freaking out and about to have a breakdown at work.

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  • Oh my gosh! :( They shut down with basically no effin notice?? I'm so sorry. It will all be OK somehow...in the meantime, deep breaths!
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  • I'm so, so sorry.  ((hugs))  This is just awful. 

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  • imagecour10e:
    Oh my gosh! :( They shut down with basically no effin notice?? I'm so sorry. It will all be OK somehow...in the meantime, deep breaths!

    Apparently they lost another client. The company has been hemoraging money and they sold off a couple of pieces of it last week. They told DH he was okay last Friday. This was the breaking point I guess.

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  • Oh I'm so sorry. I so feel your pain-DH was laid off in March.  I hope you can leave work and go home now.
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  • Yikes! I'm so sorry!
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  • Oh no girl!  I am so sorry!  I can't believe they just shut down the company like that.  Lots of t&p's to you!!!  ((big hugs)) and take deep breaths
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  • I'm so sorry : ( thats terrible.
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    Oh no!! I am so sorry! I hope he's able to find something soon.
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  • I'm so sorry! 

    What does he do?  My company's hiring all over the country...

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  • Oh no! Fvck is right. Can he at least collect unemployment?
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  • I'm so sorry. ((huge hugs))

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    I'm so sorry! 

    What does he do?  My company's hiring all over the country...

    He was a data routing analyst for a transportation company. He used to be a chef as well. I believe tomorrow we will be downtown hitting up all the restaurants.

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    Oh no! Fvck is right. Can he at least collect unemployment?

    He's at the office right now. I just don't know how we are going to do this. I barely make enough to cover my side of the bills.

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  • Ugh, I'm so so sorry.

    Hope he finds an even better job soon!

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  • Oh no! I'm sorry!
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  • I'm so sorry, I've been there (though not with a baby) and I know it fvcking sucks! Good luck and I hope he finds something fast!!!

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  • I'm really sorry. I hope you guys can manage until he finds something.
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    I am so, so sorry.
  • Oh no, I'm so sorry.
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  • Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry!!!
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    Oh, no!  JQ, I'm so sorry!  I hope he finds something even better, like, yesterday.
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  • What the fvck?! They JUST said he was going to be fine last week! I am so so so sorry JQ.

    FWIW I cried 5 times yesterday at work, so if you need to have a breakdown, you won't be the only one. 

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  • I'm soooo sorry (((( HUGS ))))

    I know this is bad and I'm so sorry.  Try to stay positive.  One time I got laid off and DH got laid off a week later.  It was so scary, but we did OK.

    (((( HUGS )))))

  • I've have 15 minutes left and I'm bawling at my desk. I wish I got paid overtime. I would sit here all night
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    What the fvck?! They JUST said he was going to be fine last week! I am so so so sorry JQ.

    FWIW I cried 5 times yesterday at work, so if you need to have a breakdown, you won't be the only one. 

    I know! DH has been putting out resumes since last week. I'm hoping somebody bites.

    ((HUGS)) I'm glad you will be done with that job soon.

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  • I am so so sorry.  (((Huge hugs)))
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  • OH no!!! I am so sorry! your family is going to be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope he can find something else quickly.
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  • Whoa, OMG, that is not cool.  I hope a door opens somewhere for him, and soon.  
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  • (((hugs))) I'm so sorry you guys are going through this. I can't imagine :( Hang in there!
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  • Oh no!  I am so sorry. {hugs}
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  • I'm so sorry hon. ((hugs))
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    oh hun I am so sorry to hear that. Breath. It will be ok. I know how scared you must be right now. Big big hugs. I hope he is able to find a job soon and that he gets some sort of severance and unemployment to help carry you through this time.

     

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  • That sucks! MH's company closed the day we brought Lucas home from the hospital.
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    Oh no :( I'm so sorry. I know you guys will pull thru and things will be fine. Just take it one day at a time.
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  • I'm so sorry.  That is really terrible news, but I hope that in the long run, this only opens up more doors for your DH.  (((hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry! (((((HUGS))))
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  • That is horrible...Hoping for the best!
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  • OMG I'm so, so sorry.....I would be freaking out too. I wish I had some advice :(
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    I am so very sorry, JQ!
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