Wrong decision? Random Poorly Worded Vent

RFKD82909

   So my last dr appt was 10 days ago and my bp was slightly elevated. The doc told me that he wanted me to keep an eye on things and if I had headaches that didn't go away with meds, unusual swelling, dizziness ect to call. Fast forward to the last two days. My feet got huge yesterday and I had a pretty bad headache that just wouldnt go away. I'd been feeling pretty crappy but I figured it was just the weather and normal third tri feelings. I made an appt with the doctor today and my bp is high. He has me doing a 24 hour urine collection, some blood tests and am under strict instructions to remain horizontal for the next 48 hours minimum.

    H and I are under a lot of stress. I started a new job about a month ago and am still learning the ropes and its a very busy and complex job. We are waiting on my test results about my H's cancer. We have little reason to think something is wrong with him except last time there was a switch in his meds to lower his levels and now we have to see if the new meds are working. H also just interviewed for, was offered and declined a new job and we'd been stressing about that decision.

   I'm stressed. But I'm always stressed. I'm just worried that making all these huge decisions towards the end of the pregnancy are having an adverse effect on my health. I know in theory that things are going to happen regardless even if I do my best, things could still happen.

I guess I just need to trust myself that I'm making the best decisions for my family and just frustrated that things are starting to become complicated. I have no reason to complain. Baby looks good and it's just a precaution.

 

buckeyethor

You are doing a good job for your baby. You just need to stay laying down as the doctor suggested while you get the protein results from the 24 hour collection. I have been there. It is hard but try to just watch some nice relaxing movies and get some rest.

KYmama9286

Not to scare you-- but they are testing for signs of pre-eclampsia (which I'm sure you realize) and from my understand there is NOTHING you can do to prevent pre-e and nothing you can really do to CAUSE pre-e. So I don't think everything going on in your life is causing this, it just happens, so don't add to your stress by worrying and stressing about your stress level lol Stress is never good, pregnant or not, try and use the next 48 hours to relax, decompress and spend some time doing funny baby things (start filling out a baby book, start a pregnancy scrap book, watch some fun baby movies on netflix). T&P that everything turns out okay!

sprads

skyllingstadl:

Not to scare you-- but they are testing for signs of pre-eclampsia (which I'm sure you realize) and from my understand there is NOTHING you can do to prevent pre-e and nothing you can really do to CAUSE pre-e. So I don't think everything going on in your life is causing this, it just happens, so don't add to your stress by worrying and stressing about your stress level lol Stress is never good, pregnant or not, try and use the next 48 hours to relax, decompress and spend some time doing funny baby things (start filling out a baby book, start a pregnancy scrap book, watch some fun baby movies on netflix). T&P that everything turns out okay!

I couldn't have said it better.

allobosc

sprads:

skyllingstadl:

Not to scare you-- but they are testing for signs of pre-eclampsia (which I'm sure you realize) and from my understand there is NOTHING you can do to prevent pre-e and nothing you can really do to CAUSE pre-e. So I don't think everything going on in your life is causing this, it just happens, so don't add to your stress by worrying and stressing about your stress level lol Stress is never good, pregnant or not, try and use the next 48 hours to relax, decompress and spend some time doing funny baby things (start filling out a baby book, start a pregnancy scrap book, watch some fun baby movies on netflix). T&P that everything turns out okay!

I couldn't have said it better.

Me either.  ((Hugs))

RFKD82909

Thanks ladies. It's nice to know I didn't cause this. I know it's just a precaution and getting her here safe and sound is the most important thing. I'm working on the baby book tonight!

doodlebug914

Stress can cause your blood pressure to be high, but not contribute to pre-e.  Take this time for yourself to allow your body to rest.  I hope things turn around and I'll be thinking of you!!