TTC anniversary

abbe19

This month marks our 3 year TTC anniversary. 3 years. How in the hell did I get here? I just cannot believe I have not conceived yet. Nothing. Not one single positive pregnancy test in 3 years. Not a single diagnosis and/or reason for all of our failures. WTF am I doing? Am I delusional to think I can get pregnant? I am sorry for the pity party. Just sick of this. 

matt'sbride

That sucks. Our 3 yr mark is this year as well and I'm not looking forward to it. I wish I could answer all of your questions, but the one answer i do have is that you are not delusional. If you haven't been given a reason not to, then why stop trying? (((Hugs)))

bbakersgirl75

I am so sorry hun, I know how hard TTC anniversary's can be.

 

(HUGE HUGS) to you today hun.

mainesmichelle

I am sorry... this really sucks!!  When we hit our 3yr mark I felt the same way.  After everything we have done, not one postive!!

IF really does suck!!

I hope you get your BFP soon!!

cookie_queen

We are approaching the 3 year mark in Sept. It sucks. I'm sorry anyone else is there too.

However I would rather have not seen a positive then be where I am because now its not even if I can get pg again but if I can stay pg long enough for the baby to survive. 

ETA: I realized that came out like I was trying to one up you and that wasn't my intention. I was just trying to relate to what you were saying. I'm sorry if it came out wrong. 

abbe19

Thanks lovies. I appreciate all of your kind words.

Cookie-no worries. I know what you meant. You have been thru the ringer. I would never take offense. 

Temp590840000005378

So sorry, I think I'm on my 4th year, it sucks!! You deserve to have a pity party for sure, I'm sure it's even more upsetting not having a diagnosis or any answers.  Big Hugs!!

Bella2u07

I am so sorry hun.  BIG (((HUGS)))

I am keeping you in my thoughts and keeping everything crossed that your next IVF will bring you your sticky BFP!!!!!

M&MBride0506

((hugs)) TTC anniversaries suck!! 

etoyama

I'm so sorry, Abbe. These are the worst kind of anniversaries. Both you and DH deserve so much better. (((HUGS)))

babylove0511

((((HUGS)))) I'm so sorry Abbe. I hate this post and wish things were different, sweetie.

MrsBabs

Me and my Hubby are a little over two and a half years.  I never imagined we would ever be in the situation, but we are unfortunately. 

Dont worry about your pity party, I threw one for myself a few days ago.  I think we always try to suck it up, and you can only suck it up for so long, its natural and healthy to have a good cry once in a while about it.  I think it helps you release and just get out the frustration.  So throw that pity party, grab a box of tissues and a bowl of ice cream.  It always seems to help me. Ha Ha

So go have some me time, cry and vent a little bit, get a pedicure.. and tomorrow morning when you are feeling better perk up and say, "gotta keep trying".  Don't give up hope, it will happen for us. We deserve it.

mdluv21

((hugs))

albjag

in 11 days it will be our 4 yr TTC anniversary.  sigh

Yolanbo9

I'm so sorry Abbe

TTC anniversaries are always the worst!

(((Huge Hugs)))

Mandy_Lou83

I am so sorry. Two years just passed for us. I can't imagine how three years will feel.

DeputiesWife

I hear you. Loud and clear. Our 3 year is in June.

 ::hugs::

k10teach

So sorry.... do something fun for yourself! Retail therapy is always something that makes me feel better.  I am in the middle of a 2ww and just got back from a shopping trip to try to get my mind off of everything.  We have been TTC for a little over 2 1/2 years and I know how you are feeling. Pedicures, shopping, ice cream, chocolate- you deserve the works!

lovesnack

matt'sbride:

That sucks. Our 3 yr mark is this year as well and I'm not looking forward to it. I wish I could answer all of your questions, but the one answer i do have is that you are not delusional. If you haven't been given a reason not to, then why stop trying? (((Hugs)))

 

I like that! If you haven't been given a reason not to, then why stop trying?? Well said!!

lovesnack

matt'sbride:

That sucks. Our 3 yr mark is this year as well and I'm not looking forward to it. I wish I could answer all of your questions, but the one answer i do have is that you are not delusional. If you haven't been given a reason not to, then why stop trying? (((Hugs)))

 

I like that! If you haven't been given a reason not to, then why stop trying?? Well said!!

lovesnack

matt'sbride:

That sucks. Our 3 yr mark is this year as well and I'm not looking forward to it. I wish I could answer all of your questions, but the one answer i do have is that you are not delusional. If you haven't been given a reason not to, then why stop trying? (((Hugs)))

 

I like that! If you haven't been given a reason not to, then why stop trying?? Well said!!