Stressing out- tell me about bloat and tell me I'm not pg

blueLu25

So DH had the big V back in Dec, so I know this is a long shot, and I should just go to the store and buy a test. But I went to the $ store yesterday and couldnt even bring myself to buy one. 

The last week or so, by the end of the day I look like myself at 3-4 months pg. I keep telling myself that its because my abs are STILL separated (I can feel the space in between easily). I am starving and tired all the time, which could just be from nursing but.... its just freaking me out. Has this happened to any else? Is there anything I can do to make it go away if in fact it is some kind of bloat/ stomach muscle issue? I havent been having an indigestion issues either, if that helps. 

And yes, I realize I am being stupid and should just go buy the damn test.  

 

doublem

This might be a stupid question, but have you been drinking lots of water?  I often look bloated if I haven't had enough water to drink, especially in this warmer weather  (well, more bloated - I still have my lovely mama flab).  Also, have you had your thyroid checked lately?  Being hungry/tired/bloated feeling can also be related to your thyroid levels being off.  I'd still buy a test if I were you, just for reassurance.  Then you can drink away the stress.   Hugs to you!

JRS72206

Ruh roh! You better get your test on! Although, I'm sure it's something else.

coribecca

Until I had my tummy tuck, I looked about 4 months pregnant because of the separation in my abs.  It was worse depending on the day.  I don't think bloat means anything, but get a test if you're worried about it.

mrssmith717

Just get the damn test, L!

kaskade

Test test!  And then get yourself to a physical therapist fast.  I got some really simple exercises that helped a ton with the ab separation and made a big difference.  I went once a week for about a month and did exercises at home and it was so helpful.   I was having back pain too and I was able to take care of both.

My PT is in Woodinville and is a friend if you ever want a rec. She's awesome.

keri1013

They did the check after he had the procedure to make sure no little guys were getting through, right? I bet it is just the separation of your muscles, one of my friends has that and she always feels like she looks about 4 months pregnant. I agree with the others, take the test to be sure (let me know if you want moral support, I can come over!) and then you can work on the muscle thing. I bet Katia could give you some good suggestions too. Having your thyroid checked is a good idea too, good to rule out if nothing else.

Hugs!