baby boy naming (vent)

Michellie7

I think I'm having a serious meltdown moment. I just need to vent it out, since venting to my hubby just isn't helping right now, and I don't have many friends up here I can talk to about it. I've always considered myself a very indecisive person and now it's really showing. It seems like we can't find ANY names we agree on. Websites, books... seems like thousands of names we gone through. We both have names we fell in love with, but the other really doesn't like it- he likes Titus, I like Elias. So I always feel like we're at square one. This is probably one of, if not THE hardest decisions to make and it's starting to really "stress" me out!!! I know we still have some time, but i'm tired of hearing that!! I just want that "ah-huh!" moment, and everyday I try and get it.... egh. I guess I'll try and sleep this moment off! :-/ Thanks for listening...

PinupMomma08

I had the same issue. The name we picked we have had since 18 weeks, but I still was unsure about it. I still want to be able to change my mind even now. The name grew on me, the more I said it, and looked at my short list. 

It will happen.  

crusty1

Can you each pick one name & then choose one as a middle name? That's kinda how we ended up with our LO's name. DH liked Callum, I liked Jude.

Titus Elias

Elias Titus

 

Sounds good to me:)

beekernbaby

My husband and I had a hard time with selecting names. We each kept a list of names we liked and then combined the list.  We took a few weeks crossing off names and adding new ones until we came to one name that we both liked.  Just consider it a work in progress and don't stress that you haven't decided.  My sister waited until she saw her babies before they selected a name.

cristydodge

I remember that i had the same issue. It will be alright. You will get it. You will have a nice name for your kid. Best of luck for that!

Michellie7

Thank you for the words of encouragement! I need to stay positive!