Seeing STBXH drinking beer during our son's first birthday party. I mean, that's normal for him, but the feeling of sheer anger I got the second I saw him told me that I was ready to file.
Him abusing me should have made me leave long ago, but it was when he threatened to throw our 4 month old across the room and then dropped her 2-3 feet into my lap (literally) I left, got a OOP for me and my DD, and I've never looked back.
Re: If you filed
Seeing STBXH drinking beer during our son's first birthday party. I mean, that's normal for him, but the feeling of sheer anger I got the second I saw him told me that I was ready to file.
When you get to that point, you'll know.