dh update

cookie1and2

He's still in the hospital and hasn't improved.  5 days in the hospital, 5 days on IV antibiotics and nothing--still fever, still pain, etc.  The did another CT scan today and the surgeon said his condition has deteriorated and they want to do surgery tomorrow.  Please keep both of us in your thoughts.  It's difficult for both of us.  Obviously I don't have the physical stress of a surgery, but I've got the kids, and the dogs, and the business that I have to tend to from 3 hours away.  I'm literally at my breaking point and don't know how I'm going to do it.  I've spent the last 18 months managing everything on my own with him working out of town, and this is just putting me over the edge.  

Tiffany5412

I am so sorry.  You'll all be in our T&Ps.  Is there anything we can do to help?

ssinca

I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this. You and YH are in my thoughts.

joyco

Tiffany5412:

I am so sorry.  You'll all be in our T&Ps.  Is there anything we can do to help?

 

Ditto this.  I am so sorry you're going through this and especially that your husband hasn't gotten any better.  Tons of ***get well soon*** dust for him.  

smb29

Lots good thoughts and prayers to you guys. Let us know how we can help.

fjaril

I can't even imagine.

sending lots of get better dust.

JenniferL923

fjaril:

I can't even imagine.

sending lots of get better dust.

 

Ditto.  T&P to you guys. 

christym0606

lots of T&P to you both!  I hope the surgery goes very smoothly.

MrsJayOK

Both of you are in my thoughts and prayers.  Ditto Tiffany -- if there is anything we can do, let us know!!

HSartteach

OH Sweetie, I am so sorry.

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

A&Jmom

I'm so sorry!  Lots of positive healthy dust coming both of your ways.  Please let us know what we can do to help. 

cookie1and2

Thanks all.  I will let you know if I need help with anything.  I'm just playing it day by day right now.  

AustinMimi

I'm so sorry for all this stress. Let me know if I can help with the dogs, meals, etc. Thinking of you.

mcgee

Tons of T&P for you and your DH. Can I bring a meal over to you sometime this week? Is there anything else I can do to help? I'd be happy to help with the dog or the kids or running errands for you or whatever. Email me.

Abrooks

I am so sorry!!  I was OOT last week and didn't see the OP but I'll be saying prayers for you all!

atlantic

I'm so sorry for all you're going through.  Please do not hesitate to ask for help--seriously - there's a lot of us on here and only one of you!

Lots and lots of thoughts and prayers! 

bluestreet

Piss! I'm so sorry. I'd be very happy to bring a meal or bring you groceries. For real.

jess i ca b white at gmail dot com. (I'm cia's friend and we met a few weeks ago).

2H2L

MrsRosie:

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What can we do?  Would meals help?  Babysitting? 

This. I'm so sorry and sending all if my good thoughts and dust. Is there anything we can help with?

AmethystBride

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.  Let us know if we can do anything to help.

**hugs**

kiarox2002

I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all of this.  Tons of healing dust to your DH.  And ditto, let us know if we can help.

intheatx

T&P for your entire family!!

PMBridetobe

I am so sorry!  You all will be in my thoughts and prayers!!

Mrs.Froggianna

I'm so sorry.  Loads of thoughts & prayers & *~*~*~*~*~*~*successful surgery & healing dust*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Ditto everyone else--please, please let us know how we can help.

bobcatsteph

I'm so sorry y'all are going through all of this. Please let us know what we can do! I know how hard it is to ask/accept help because as women we pride ourselves in being able to handle everything without help.

rssnlvr

I'm so sorry y'all are both going through this. You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers for strength. I hope everything is back to normal very soon!

Nessia

Lots of thoughts and prayers for your family.

balihaigirl

i'm so sorry.  lots of T&P sent your way.

lovemydog

MrsRosie:

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What can we do?  Would meals help?  Babysitting? 

Ditto.  What can we do to help?

carlinlp

K, please let us know if there is anything we can do to help, no matter how small! Thoughts and prayers to you all!

angelaggie

Oh I am so so sorry!  I can't even imagine how hard this must be.

Again, if you need anything at all.  Even just some time alone I'm more than willing to help out with the kids or clean or anything!

Xtina712

I'm so sorry!  Sending lots of vibes and dust

austxgrl

Bless your heart.  Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your family's way.

cia

oh man, i am so so sorry.  Sending you tons of hugs.  You can do this - you are super strong and he will pull through awesomely.  

mrslaquinta

Oh no!  I am so sorry!  I can imagine how stressful this must be on all of you - sending lots of good thoughts your way!!

Taytee

**LOTSO "GET THINGS BACK TO NORMAL" DUST!!**