Hi - I'm new around here

KimberJEB

Hi -

  I have a 2.5 year old son and we have been TTC#2 since June 2010.  Things are a little complicated...no officially infertility (haven't even been to OB/GYN about it yet) but based on my (admittedly poor) charting I didn't ovulate November to February, but have since then and did before then.  I am still nursing my son, btw.  Also, my husband doesn't always...finish...during sex...which means that actually TRYING is hard sometimes.  However, we've had at least 5-6 cycles where I THINK I O'd and we did try at the right time, and nothing, so...yeah.  As I said, a little bit complicated.  And a little awkward, because it's not like the problem that we/he's having has anything to do with infertility except, well,  it's pretty much necessary. And also awkward because it upsets him to talk about. Anyway.

 My two best friends and I all decide separately last year that we wanted to get pregnant over the summer, and we all thought it was fun that we were on the same page.  They both got pregnant in June.  I threw their baby shower in January.  Their little boys are here.  My son asks where his baby brother is. I love them (moms and babies and older siblings!) but, it's hard.  Really hard sometimes. 

 Anyway, I hope y'all don't mind if I hang around:)

JMay

Welcome!  It's so hard to watch people pass you by - always happy for them, but sad for ourselves too.  Hang in there - we're a great group! 

jennykg1477

Welcome to the board!  I hope that you are able to find answers soon and get your baby #2!

JessMike07

Hi Kimber! :::HUGS::: So sorry you are here but welcome!

If your DH's problem is ED, I'd be more then happy to to talk to you about somethings we have been through. Or if you want check out my blog, my last post I talked about the issues we are having.  

KimberJEB

Thanks,y'all:)

Jess, no, that's not his problem.  It's kind of the opposite.  It takes so long that we are both physically exhausted and over it before he does.  Sounds ridiculous, but...that's it.  Thanks though!

jennykg1477

Hi Kimber, I don't know if you will read this because I am a little late to the party (although I already posted once on this thread), but my DH has the same problem sometimes.  It is usually after we have done it several time recently.  He says that he gets "desensitized".  It is so frustrating!  We just did clomid and a trigger shot and then we were supposed to have TI for the next 3 days.  Well, we were only able to do 2 days because on the third we had that issue.  I am really hoping that the 2 days were enough!  If you find any solution, let me know!