Wayyy TMI but what the heck....

LuvBug12683

I think I am a slut lol j/k
DH and I have only had sex 2 times since Norahs birth...once after my 6 week pp check up. Hurt. We tried again after my one week wait after my IUD was put in. Hurt. So Sunday we decided to give it a try again...not only did it not hurt, but I couldnt feel and dang thing, I had to ask DH why it was taking so long and if its "different" down there, he was just like "Its ok honey, Im sure it will get better" !! Is this typical? Common? I did have a nice 3rd degree tear so I have to think thats why Im so...loose? hehe, tell me it gets better...is there anything I can do to help this process along?

::hides head in embarassment!::

AnnetteWalker

I too had tearing and got and IUD. We have only had sex say 3 or 4 times since DS birth. I know I am a bad wife. But I am so tired all the time and DH is also tired since working on the new house. So it has been slow for us. And yes it hurt all of the times. Only the last time was good for me. It just takes time to get things back to normal.

preston18

Astroglide?  More kegels?

And no using the s word becasue you want to get it on with your husband!

 

June24Bride

I feel your pain! It will get better...but for now do your kegels, that seemed to help alot for me

tfarabians

Dh and I still don't do the deed that often but lets face it we are exhausted most of the time.  But I do have to say it still hurts a bit and my sex drive is still not really there!  I sort of wish I was in your situation!

Rachandderek

I remember when i went to a passion party they had something that is supposed to make you tighter. I'm not sure if it works or not? But it could be worth a try if thats the problem.