not sure what to do at this point

susanc07

so STBX has a new GF - papers aren't even filed.  i'd been waiting on him to draft an estimate which was to be attached to our property settlement agreement.  anyway, he has kept the kids approximately 3 hours this week.  this was his weekend, and b/c i made some smart-ass comment about his whore, he refused to take them.

not only did he refuse to take them, but said he's hired his own lawyer.  we'd already worked out the details together with one attorney, and now he wants to change everything b/c he's mad at "me and my mouth."

i just really want full-custody of these kids.  i don't think he is in his right mind with the way he's been acting.  also, i have them all the time anyway.  but he says he's going to fight me and if i take them he will walk away for good and it will be all my fault.  logically, i know it's not my fault.  he controls his own actions, but i don't want them to totally lose their father b/c i'm being selfish.

BMenz

(to be honest) Unless you can prove that his is an unfit parent (or he states that you can have 100% custody) you won't get 100% custody of the children.

The best thing to do now is to document document document everything that he says, does, and doesn't do. 

dimake

BMenz:

The best thing to do now is to document document document everything that he says, does, and doesn't do. 

This...  My divorce has been final for almost a year and I still document when my XH sees the girls (even though I probably don't need to anymore...)