Vent + tears.

buddy83

Am I overreacting? I have been talking about going to see a certain movie for MONTHS. My friend said she'd go with me but wasn't a fan. We even talked about it this weekend. She got free tickets today to see it and invited me to go, but I worked too late. She just texted me that the movie was good. I asked what movie, and she said the one I'd been talking about. WTF?! This is the second time in two weeks that's she's done this. But this time I'd been talking about the movie for months! She said I said I didn't want to go. BULLSH**!! I had two tickets for us to go. I'm sitting here in total tears over this. Is that stupid?

laurynfaerie

I wouldn't say it's stupid, but at the same time I think your hormones are getting the better of you. Unless this is something that would normally reduce you to tears, in which case I would think you were a little over-emotional.

I'd definetly be ticked off. But if I was crying over it, it would definetly be the hormones.

ETA: Out of curiosity, what movie is it? I doubt that would change my answer, I just want to know.

littlecookie

I'm sorry you're upset. Perhaps you left some of the story out, but with what you wrote, I wouldn't be upset with my friend. From what I gather, you want to see a movie, she says she'd go. She gets free tickets and invites you to go. You can't. She sees movie. You're mad at her because she didn't waste the tickets someone gave her?

mrspayne10

littlecookie:

I'm sorry you're upset. Perhaps you left some of the story out, but with what you wrote, I wouldn't be upset with my friend. From what I gather, you want to see a movie, she says she'd go. She gets free tickets and invites you to go. You can't. She sees movie. You're mad at her because she didn't waste the tickets someone gave her?

This. I think you're overreacting. Pregnancy hormones can do that to us!

buddy83

I'm sure the hormones are a big factor. I'm a huge Fast & Furious fan and have been so excited about the last one. I've been talking to her about it for months. She's not a fan at all, but agreed to go with me. It just shocked me that she would go see a movie she never wanted to see, yet I was so excited to see. Her tickets were free and on a whim, mine were paid for (by me) and we could go when we had time. It just hurts. I would not do that to her. She is a wonderful friend, this just knocked me for a loop. I guess I just needed to vent.

buddy83

mrspayne10:

littlecookie:

I'm sorry you're upset. Perhaps you left some of the story out, but with what you wrote, I wouldn't be upset with my friend. From what I gather, you want to see a movie, she says she'd go. She gets free tickets and invites you to go. You can't. She sees movie. You're mad at her because she didn't waste the tickets someone gave her?

This. I think you're overreacting. Pregnancy hormones can do that to us!

I really don't like these hormones. This is the first thing that's really upset me so far. I guess that's not too bad. 

ashleyr87

I understand completely. She was going to be your movie buddy and now she's already gone to see it, when she didn't even want to see it in the first place. I would just stop depending on her, if this is a recurrent thing you'll just stress yourself out by counting on her.