Not sure what to do......

SammyJ0J0

For starters i got diagnosed with depression about 2 years but and well i felt like i was getting better and life improved. I have always been treated like crap by people i cared about lied to cheated on yadda yadda. Well fast-forward to now me and my husband have been married for a  month as of today and he is training he is in the military. Well i went on to get his ex-wife off the cell phone account shes still an authorized user, a little background on her she screwed around on my husband the whole time he was gone and from what i understand the whole time they were married. She took everything and left him for the dude she started seeing after he left for iraq. She also closed out the joint account they had together, stupid on his part to keep it open but we understood she was putting in papers to get off the account. She also stole over 2,000 outta the account leaving it in a negative balance. Well he went to training for a month and she sends me a message on valentines day no less sending me pix that he sent her of his you-know-what, she sends me a snapshot of a message he wrote from his facebook, as well as a few emails from him to her. Well i looked on the cell phone bill and low and behold i see right there plain as day he not only sent her pix but as well as two other women!!!! he also sent a pic to support@hornypict at this point i am disgusted so i ask him about it not even accusing and he jumps up my ass and tells me idk how they got sent i never sent them. then he tells me you can believe me or not but i don't care. Ok seriously you dont tell your wife who is pregnant with a child you are soo excited to have seeing as his ex-wife couldnt have kids. Saturday night he gets home i've been cleaning and im exhausted but i still manage to cook him a hot meal. and his phone goes off and he acts like he normally doesn't he acts like he doesnt wanna look at his phone and to just ignore it when he always answers his phone regardless. so i see a message from her and its the only one that says i take it you didnt get the pic i sent i know you'd like it and i also see on the cell phone that he talked to her that day and she sent a pic. i asked him and he told me she was bothering him and he was trying to get her to stop but she wouldnt. Well last night he threatens to leave tells me to stay at my parents he will just leave and i will sell stuff and get you as much money as i can, keep in mind that most stuff he could sell are things of mine. i guess i wasn't right for you it was a good shot ill talk to you later. I then call him im furious how could someone just give up like that after 1 MONTH!!!! I am at wits end right now i have got maybe two hours of sleep i've been bawling. i need someone to talk to, i've been talking to his mom me and her have gotten pretty close. and its making the tears stop a little bit. Sorry this is soo long i just am soo down right now and i am thinking bad thoughts like when i feel her kicking it feels like a mistake now to have kept her. I know im being stupid for even thinking such an awful thing. I know i need to get help because i feel like im worthless and like im losing someone i care about the most in this world. Please don't give me negative feedback i don't need to feel worse right now.

FutureMrsWittig

Wow.

Here is my advice and I hope it doesn't come across as uncaring...  Know that I don't intend it that way.

Would you ever want your daughter in a relationship like this one?  If not pack up and get out now.  Find a good lawyer and a good counselor.  You don't deserve this.

MarSamWhitney

You need to talk to someone, your mom, sister, friend, a minister, anyone, and get out of there. He is lying to you, you know this. Your baby is not a mistake, it is a miracle.  This stress is not good for you or the baby. Hang in there, it will be ok.