*~*Monday Moans*~*

veronicafvr

jpellillo:

Amanda&EricB:

jpellillo:

Amanda&EricB:

jpellillo:

 

I am so sorry for both of you, I have been there. Who knows why friends react the way they do. It's very hard but you can't let it bother you. Those are their issues and you can only do so much before you just let go and hope that one day they will come back to you. It's a long story but my best friend of 12+ years "broke up" with me via deleting me from Facebook about a year ago. We have had problems here and there, mostly because she lived in CA and I am in FL, so the whole distance thing made it hard sometimes, but never in my life would I ever think she would just delete me from her life. I asked for a reason, which I found to be completely delusional, and it took a good 6 months before I came to terms with it. But now I am in an ok place of acceptance. You will get to that point to, but you have to let go a bit and if they don't come around or treat you how you deserve to be treated it is probably for the best. Good luck to you both!

italnprncss78

JKGymnast:

I went for a prenatal massage Saturday and the reclining table FELL TWICE during my massage (the back/recline part, not the whole table).  I'm pretty sure it was NOT relaxing at all... And she said it's happened before. 

Well, if it has "happened before" - shouldn't you get a NEW TABLE??  Just a thought? :-)

I do hope you got a free massage out of that!!

barefootally

It's May 2nd and it was SNOWING here this morning. Granted I know I live in the Tundra a.k.a. Minnesota, but COME ON. What do I have to do around here to get some warm weather??!! I WANNA WEAR MY SUPER CUTE NEW MATERNITY SUN DRESSES!!!!

Wow, I feel much better now. LOL

sunflower8710

jakstr0808:

It's finally May and I was waiting til the weekend (yesterday) to update my sig for the May challenge.  Now (since even yesterday) TB gives me an error message everytime I try to save my new signature! Grrrr...

 

Also I had BIG drama with MIL this weekend.  She apologized and sort of fixed the situation but I totally hold grudges and feel like I'll never like her again. (I totally recognize this is a fault of mine, the grudge thing, not the drama issue)

I am always game for a good story with MIL drama.

Leahanna21

I work on a Naval Base so all the heat/AC is controlled by them, for every building - so if ONE person complains about it being 'hot' they turn off the heat and on comes the AC - one or two days of nice weather doesnt mean SUMMER people!!! Now I'm Freezing in my office & there is NO hope in getting it turned off euh!

chargermama

1. I have 4 more weeks until my vacation.

2. I hate my boss

3. I seat right next to said boss

4. I'm ready to have this baby already...

 

UZ2Bee

1) We had a blizzard/wind storm on Friday and terrible winds on Saturday and we were stuck in our house all weekend - we actually couldn't get out - 3 feet of snow in front of the door.  I'M TIRED OF THE SNOW!!!

2) I am starting to get resentful that my usually great DH seems to forget that I'm pregnant lately.  He makes comments about me going to bed early, about my energy level, about my symptoms of pregnancy.... I just want to slap him!  On top of it - he took a 3 hour nap yesterday "because he felt like it" and left me to make the entire turkey dinner he'd promised the kids and I for me to make.  *sigh* I hope this passes soon!

 

jpellillo

veronicafvr:

jpellillo:

Amanda&EricB:

jpellillo:

Amanda&EricB:

jpellillo:

 

I am so sorry for both of you, I have been there. Who knows why friends react the way they do. It's very hard but you can't let it bother you. Those are their issues and you can only do so much before you just let go and hope that one day they will come back to you. It's a long story but my best friend of 12+ years "broke up" with me via deleting me from Facebook about a year ago. We have had problems here and there, mostly because she lived in CA and I am in FL, so the whole distance thing made it hard sometimes, but never in my life would I ever think she would just delete me from her life. I asked for a reason, which I found to be completely delusional, and it took a good 6 months before I came to terms with it. But now I am in an ok place of acceptance. You will get to that point to, but you have to let go a bit and if they don't come around or treat you how you deserve to be treated it is probably for the best. Good luck to you both!

Thanks Veronica!  I lost a very close friend last year very similar to yours - her and I worked together but we were really close and she completely planned the bachelorette party.  Then two weeks before, she pulled out.  Never gave me a reason and completely disappeared from my life.  I still don't know what happened.  Unfortunately, what I'm going through with my best friend feels eerily similar.  My sister and husband think it's just her own stuff but I can't help but worry that if I lose her too I won't have anyone else here (all of my really close friends and sister live in other cities).  I know you're right though, I'll have to let go and get to that place of acceptance.