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where's mine? (kids mentioned)

So i'm a toddler teacher, and this year they moved me up with my class, so i've had my same munchkins for over 2 years, i love them to death, i have become very attached, and have become very close to their families (maybe since i don't have my own yet) so one of my favorite little boys, the parents invited me to his birthday party....so of course i went, thinking oh fun!  and it was genuinely a great party, hanging out with parents and their kids outside of work, but if i had to hear one more person ask me, 'so, when are you guys gonna start?"  i just kept saying, 'yea, we're workin' on it" but ...ahhhhh i wanted to scream, and the more they asked the more sad i became, then i just had to go to the bathroom i almost lost it, because then i'm there watching all these happy families, just wishing i had my own :(

and i know, god will give us our baby when the time is right, but i just can't stand people asking all the time, one of my moms opened up to me about her infertility, so i was sitting at a table and she came and sat down, and was asking about my test on friday, etc, it's nice at least one person knows LOL

but i love the little boy who's birthday it was, and i love my munchkins, so i ended up playing with them instead of socializing with their parents, sometimes that's just easier lol

**~*Noelle*~**
Happily Wed DH in May 2010
June 2012: DD#1 born after countless fertility cycles, our 4 year old miracle 
TTC #2: current cycle: 225iu Menopur for 4 weeks, Ovidrel Trigger= BFP! Beta #1; 333, Beta #2 713! 1st u/s showed TWINS (7/18)
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Re: where's mine? (kids mentioned)

  • It was very nice of you to go to the bday party.  Definitely, above the 'call of duty'.  I'm sorry you had to deal with a bunch of ignorant fertile myrtles (minus one)! ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry that you had to endure the rude comments but I'm glad that you played with the kids and it made you feel a little better. 
    My Wonderful Sister is my GC!!!! 3 IUIs, 2 unmedicated, 1 50mg of Clomid = All BFNs Next step IVF!!!! Melinda & Michael 5*6*06 God Bless The Broken Road
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