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I was lapped by SIL

sushi&wasabisushi&wasabi
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Of course I had to find out through the grapevine that she is pregnant again.  I wish I could just 100% be happy for her.  Our first IUI was a bust when her 1st child was only a month old, so it is just hard to wrap my head around the fact that it is starting all over again.  Sigh.....
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  • M&MBride0506M&MBride0506
    I'm so sorry sweetie ((hugs)).
    My Wonderful Sister is my GC!!!! 3 IUIs, 2 unmedicated, 1 50mg of Clomid = All BFNs Next step IVF!!!! Melinda & Michael 5*6*06 God Bless The Broken Road
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Hugs.  So sorry.  I hope you get your BFP very soon.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • softbalangelsoftbalangel

    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))

    Hoping you get your BFP very soon!

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  • Bella2u07Bella2u07 member

    (((hugs)))

     

    TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS
    7 IUIs = All BFNs
    2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN

    2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
    May IVF #3 = c/p
    June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
    July FET #2 = BFN
    Aug FET #3 = BFN
    Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
    Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
    Dec FET #4 = BFN

    2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
    May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
    June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
    July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
    Sept FET #6 = TBD
    **PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
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  • MBfromBMCMBfromBMC

    I'm sorry, hon.

    (((hugs)))

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    TTC since March 2009 // Me and DH - 28
    Testing Summer/Fall 2010 - Unexplained IF
    IUIs #1-4 ~ Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IUI #5 ~ Femara/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ BFN
    IUIs #6-9 ~ Research Study Meds/Pregnyl/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IVF Consultation, More Testing
    Diagnostic Cycle ~ Mucinex/Progesterone/TI ~ BFN
    IVF #1 ~ Menopur/Bravelle/Ganirelix/Novarel/Progesterone/Lupron
    7R, 6F // 2 transferred // 3 frosties ~ BFN
    FET #1 ~ Estrace/PIO/Lupron
    3 thawed // 2 transferred // 1 lost // no more frosties ~ BFP!!
    Beta #1 - 456 // Beta #2 - 1176 // Beta #3 - 2933 // Beta #4 - 6753
    EDD: May 16, 2013
    Threatened MC at 6w2d
    Bedrest for SCH // 6w2d through 10w1d
    Elevated TSH and Lazy Thyroid DX @ 10w - Started Synthroid
    Finally released from RE at 13w
    Charles Everett ~ Born 5/20/2013

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  • sushi&wasabisushi&wasabi
    Thanks girls.  It is just not news I need right now. Esp. while I am on bc--it seems so effing backwards! But it is still nothing compared to the storms we have had, and my mind is trying to wrap around the devastation from last night as they are pulling people from random depts. to take claims calls this morning.
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  • AmberB75AmberB75
    A similar thing happened to me. Somehow my son acquired two new cousins before we have been able to get pregnant again. Sorta sucks.
    DS born 10/2008 TTC #2 since 8/2009 MFI and natural killer cell activation diagnosis IVF #4 = BFP!! Due 10/12!!
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  • Delta04Delta04 member
    There is nothing worse than being lapped.  I have been lapped 3 times now by a friend of mine.  I love her dearly but it still hurts.  ((HUGS)) to you.
    TTC since 3/07. IVF#1 = canceled. IVF#2 = 0% fertilization. IVF#3 = BFN. IVF#4 = c/p.  
    Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
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  • Jenny952Jenny952 member

    I'm so sorry, that totally sucks.  I had the exact same thing happen.  DH and I started ttc 3 months before my SIL go k-u on her honeymoon, and then they lapped us again.  You're right, it is hard to be happy when you want something so badly. 

    ((((HUGS)))) I hope you have your big news soon.

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  • bbakersgirl75bbakersgirl75 member
    Ugh... I am so sorry hun. I know it's not easy. ((Big Hugs))
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