Struggle with myself!

hugzenkisses982

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Hello all!  I am new to thebump and clearly have babies on the brain.  However, I am having a serious struggle with myself.  My husband and I are talking about conceiving this summer (he is ok with trying this summer or waiting another year).  My gyno told me to go off the pill once May comes.  Now that May is only a few days away, it's hit me.  We're really going to start trying!  Here's my struggle, I'm scared and wondering if I'm really ready.  Should we start trying or wait another year??  We're both finicially ready and have a healthy and stable relationship.  We have a beautiful home that we would both love to raise a child in.  I feel like I'm ready, but I'm wondering if these jitters are what's holding me back.  So to all of you out there, how do you know if you're really ready....???  How did you know, you were ready?

kayapapaya4

I went/am going through the same thing. Much of the time it ends up me being in tears. We'll be okay! **I think** hehe. Start keeping track of your cycles and it will help! Click on my fertility friend ticker and sign up. Its helping me understand a lot of what goes into all of this!