Why are some questions stupid?

MOHNikki

Because some of us took the time to research this for ourselves and it get very annoying that others can't do the same thing for themselves!  Most things I had questions on took no more the 5 minutes at the most to find a reputable website.

BlairWaldorf

The only thing I need support with are my boobs.

littlewifey

I didn't realize I was "starting something I couldn't finish"...

I just think it's sad that to make yourself feel like a better parent or mommy-to-be you have to try and make others feel stupid.

As for the douchenozzle comment... I hear name-calling is one of the best ways to exhibit preparedness for motherhood. Go you!

axehappymom

I've asked a few embarassing questions myself, I believe we all have a couple up our sleeves.

still though, if you can't figure out whether or not having pubic hair will effect your baby...you should not be having a baby.

HappyHeartUSA

Because in life there is something called "common sense" as well.  You also should be getting your information from someone/ someplace other than an online discussion group. 

If you want friendly , your not always going to find it here- so then go ask your stupid questions elesewhere or get over it and ignore the snark.  Or be crazy.... use some common sense.

 

 

easjer05

jenber77:

I imagine that many of these so-called stupid questions are being asked by women who merely want reassurance from others who are in the same situation and who've faced the same decisions. First Tri as support group, right? What's wrong with that?

The question might not be serious enough to call your doctor, and anyway you can't call your doctor every time some paranoid little thought crosses your mind, but what harm is it really to post the question on a message board? You might annoy someone? Ooohhh noooooooo!

That's all well and good, but it comes with the disclaimer that you can't then complain about the responses you get.  It doesn't work both ways.

I think most of us have asked a stupid question once or twice in our lives.  But it's pretty lame to get angry when you're told it's a stupid question.

 

FutureHernandez

axehappymom:

 if you can't figure out whether or not having pubic hair will effect your baby...you should not be having a baby.

When you give birth the baby can choke on your pubes.  Didn't you know that?

BlairWaldorf

littlewifey:

I didn't realize I was "starting something I couldn't finish"...

I just think it's sad that to make yourself feel like a better parent or mommy-to-be you have to try and make others feel stupid.

Well, you were.  Congrats.

Now tell me you feel sorry for my husband and Harpie.  SAY IT.  SAY IT NOW.  TELL ME MY UTERUS IS FULL OF BITTER.

HappyHeartUSA

Mamawannabe:

There aren't stupid questions when it comes to making sure you are doing what's best for your baby.  The pregnancy hormones just tend to fly on this website!

 

NO there are stupid questions--- and the longer you are on here-- you will see.  AND let's not blame everything on pregnancy hormones-- what about those unable to figure out that they should call their DOCTOR for real answers...

HappyHeartUSA

littlewifey:

I didn't realize I was "starting something I couldn't finish"...

I just think it's sad that to make yourself feel like a better parent or mommy-to-be you have to try and make others feel stupid.

As for the douchenozzle comment... I hear name-calling is one of the best ways to exhibit preparedness for motherhood. Go you!

Umm... your not exactly being well behaved either-- so let's not start calling the kettle black young lady.

TimingisEverything

B/c some people are stupid.

Mrs.C042807

FutureHernandez:

axehappymom:

 if you can't figure out whether or not having pubic hair will effect your baby...you should not be having a baby.

When you give birth the baby can choke on your pubes.  Didn't you know that?

Thanks, FH.  I just choked on my water. 

MELLEN08

SpringPeeper:

MELLEN08:

MegDC:

Why would you rather do what random strangers on the internet tell you to do instead of reading?  Or calling your doctor? 

 Because everyone here is pregnant & most likely someone has insight.  Calling your doctor just wastes his/her time & most like he/she is wondering why you haven't done your research prior to asking a "stupid question."

 

Since when is asking random strangers "research"? You would rather trust random people on a message board to give you the right answer? 

I, obviously don't rely solely on the advice I gather from here, but it is a start or finish sometimes.  If I called my midwife to ask her if I could do such & such or eat "x" as often as something crosses my mind she would find me annoying.  I agree with all of the ladies who aren't bothered by a somewhat naive question here & there and understand the need to ask those they have one thing in common with. 

  

Ricky Bobby

MELLEN08:

iheartrubberduckies:

MELLEN08:

SC Native:

See...that's what we have Doctors for. Oh, and google. And I don't believe I'd trust a bunch of people over the internet to get my "facts and opinions" I need. That's why they're stupid.

So, she should call her doctor everytime she has a question?  What if she did google it and came up with many random answers.  She knows this website will have many women available to give their opinions.  Your answer is stupid & you seem like you are trying to hard to be mean to people.  Chill out.

Honestly, I would rather have my doctor's ADVICE over the OPINION of an medically untrained nestie.

 Most questions can be answered by google or a little research on americanpregnancy. The ones that can't should be directed toward a medical professional.

 

So you are just here to be a b!tch then?

 If you will look I did not respond to any of the "stupid" questions (although resisting the lettuce post was difficult). If I wanted to be a b!tch, I would have made it obvious. You know, where you wouldn't have to ask me that question.

What I don't like is women asking questions to strangers that should be directed toward their doctor. Doctors have heard them all.

 I am here to talk to other pg women about nurseries, decorations, stupid dh moments, and occassionally politics. I do not expect advice on Feta cheese and lunch meat. My doctor and I have had these discussions.

littlewifey

"Umm... your not exactly being well behaved either-- so let's not start calling the kettle black young lady."

... ?You are SO right. I stood up for somehow who was being picked on for a stupid question... where are my manners?!

manda_mullins

FutureHernandez:

axehappymom:

 if you can't figure out whether or not having pubic hair will effect your baby...you should not be having a baby.

When you give birth the baby can choke on your pubes.  Didn't you know that?

 

I just laughed so hard my DH thinks I'm crazy! That is GOLD.

Ricky Bobby

I like the crybaby pic!  Good job!

axehappymom

FutureHernandez:

axehappymom:

 if you can't figure out whether or not having pubic hair will effect your baby...you should not be having a baby.

When you give birth the baby can choke on your pubes.  Didn't you know that?

LMAO if that doesn't belong on a bumper sticker, nothing does. They should give out little buttons with that written on it to all 1st trimester.

vhab

Yes, there are some stupid questions.  And the reason there are 14,568 different responses to questions like "Can I eat lunch meat?" is that every Dr. has a different opinion.  Mine says yes, as long as it is heated, some say yes, as long as it is in moderation.  Some people's Dr's let them take Tylenol PM, mine does not.  If you want an honest answer, your Dr. is truly the best place to go,as they may not give you the same answer that people here will.

Ricky Bobby

vhab:

Yes, there are some stupid questions.  And the reason there are 14,568 different responses to questions like "Can I eat lunch meat?" is that every Dr. has a different opinion.  Mine says yes, as long as it is heated, some say yes, as long as it is in moderation.  Some people's Dr's let them take Tylenol PM, mine does not.  If you want an honest answer, your Dr. is truly the best place to go,as they may not give you the same answer that people here will.

 Amen!  My doctor says EVERYTHING in moderation and that includes cold lunch meat, sushi, and caffeine.

However, her only no-no was coloring my hair in the first tri. Who would have thought?

MELLEN08

I am here to talk to other pg women about nurseries, decorations, stupid dh moments, and occassionally politics. I do not expect advice on Feta cheese and lunch meat. My doctor and I have had these discussions. 

iheartrubberduckies - this is a STUPID comment.  how do you handle the m/c or m/s chat? 

HappyHeartUSA

Being picked on -- please this is a message board.  Let's grow some and be done with it. 

amberdl28

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easjer05

Can we also remember that no one here is familiar with your particular health situations?

Your doc may have a very good reason for telling you to avoid caffeine when it is generally allowed that a cup of coffee a day is no big deal.

There are reasons to consult the medical professionals you pay. 

Ladyj_js

Holy Cow! I haven't been on for awhile... what the hell happened?  I know we are all women with raging hormones right now but must we judge each other so harshly?  I don't think anyone comes on here to ask questions in place of asking others, sometimes its just helpful to hear what others in your same situation are going through and what their thoughts are.  Who cares if it is a silly question... how does that hurt anyone?

Personally - I'm super emotional, feel sick and exhausted all day so when I do come on here its to chat with people I can relate to.  Is there anyone interested in talking about being pregnant? Or is everyone else here to *** and be catty?

I'm just here to chat about pregnancy Keep her chins up gals, it will get better soon!

MELLEN08

Ladyj_js:

Holy Cow! I haven't been on for awhile... what the hell happened?  I know we are all women with raging hormones right now but must we judge each other so harshly?  I don't think anyone comes on here to ask questions in place of asking others, sometimes its just helpful to hear what others in your same situation are going through and what their thoughts are.  Who cares if it is a silly question... how does that hurt anyone?

Personally - I'm super emotional, feel sick and exhausted all day so when I do come on here its to chat with people I can relate to.  Is there anyone interested in talking about being pregnant? Or is everyone else here to *** and be catty?

I'm just here to chat about pregnancy Keep her chins up gals, it will get better soon!

Well written.  :0)  I was irritated so those words weren't coming to me.

mandibird

Wow...I'm shocked at some of the totally mean women on here.  Just because things are on google, doesn't mean it doesn't make someone feel better to have another person, on the internet or not, confirm what they're wondering.  If someone thinks that a question asked is stupid, don't answer it.  There is absolutely no reason to be a ***, hormones or not.  Try being human.