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Do you ever go to TTCAL anymore?

roxyttandmeroxyttandme member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Any double dippers???

I have been in limbo of want to ttc again ...and not really ready for so long... I am just not sure where I belong....

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Re: Do you ever go to TTCAL anymore?

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    CaroleeCarolee member
    I post a lot over there.  The ladies are great and very supportive, but it can sometimes get hard watching people come and go.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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    roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    Maybe I will throw out an intro there too.... I always was a double dipper... :)

    I just don't know where I belong. My loss was over 1.5 years ago.... we aren't technically trying... I don't want to be at mc/pl - cause it is too sad... but I still need the support and of course have tons to give.

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    CaroleeCarolee member
    There are others over there who are TTA, so just because you aren't actively TTC, don't think you can't post.  People are doing intros and re-intros this morning, so take the plunge! 
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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    Cissi64Cissi64

    I go both places but post most often here and on adoption ( oldest  3 DC are adopted) and baby names ( because I'm a name nerd).  I hate to go to MC/PL because it is so sad and because I'm afraid I will scare the newbies with my history.  Don't worry about not belonging. Post away!  I would do an intro on TTCAL, however.  There was a wave of Trolls over there Yesterday and people are  wary.

    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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    suntotosuntoto member
    I don't, but that is b/c I am tired of being lapped.  It is all about what you can take and not take anymore.  Do what you want. 
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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    KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I browse over there, depending on how much time I have.  But, I don't post often over there.  We're no longer ttc, so I have no idea where I belong.  I'm just glad the ladies here put up with me.
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    suntotosuntoto member

    imageKristysRedBarn:
    I browse over there, depending on how much time I have.  But, I don't post often over there.  We're no longer ttc, so I have no idea where I belong.  I'm just glad the ladies here put up with me.

    Kristy, 

    You are a part of a family and we love you no matter what!  Don't ever leave.  

    XOXO,

    Suntoto.

    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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    butterfly843butterfly843

    imageKristysRedBarn:
    I browse over there, depending on how much time I have.  But, I don't post often over there.  We're no longer ttc, so I have no idea where I belong.  I'm just glad the ladies here put up with me.

    Sending lots of hugs and love your way Kristy.

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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    butterfly843butterfly843
    I check the main board out sometimes, like days like today where I can barely move and keeping myself busy online. But it's hard to see so many people come and go so quickly and move over to pgal when I most likely never will.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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    roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    Well, I posted an intro / re-intro. I guess I am two timing you ladies... Big Smile

     

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    DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    I pretty much just visit here and infertility.
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
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    mdm2137mdm2137

    imageDoingItRight:
    I pretty much just visit here and infertility.

    This, but I just lurk on IF. I haven't posted an intro yet.


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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    Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I usually just lurk over there. Every now and then I might respond to a post of someone I know, but I just can't deal with the board any more, not a fan of drama.

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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    LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    It's getting harder and harder to post on TTCAL.  There is no such thing as a BFP wave.  It's just one constant ferry cycling people through and leaving a few people behind.  And I'm never on that ferry out.  It's not that I'm not happy for them, but why not me? Also, many of the girls on the main board just don't get where I am and where I've been.
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    millejj1millejj1 member

    Most of my posting is over there, because even though I've been around awhile, I'm TTA so I don't feel like I should start posts here. I just offer support.

     

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    Rawr08Rawr08

    I mostly post on TTCAL, but not much lately.  I am done with the drama, I just can't keep up with it anymore.  A lot of the ladies who offered me great support have all moved onto PgAL.  The few ladies who are left that I connect with are great, but I don't see them around much.  I guess I also feel like a black sheep wherever I go.  I don't have many connections here, but I am trying. 

    I am glad you made your intro over there, there are a lot of nice ladies.

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    michroccmichrocc member
    No. For the reasons listed by just about everyone.
    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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    dizzycooksdizzycooks member

    imageKristysRedBarn:
    I browse over there, depending on how much time I have.  But, I don't post often over there.  We're no longer ttc, so I have no idea where I belong.  I'm just glad the ladies here put up with me.

     I love it Kristy!  I think I've seen you on MM too haven't I?  I pop up on a few boards, but I definitely browse more than I post.  I have been staying away from TTCAL because I get tired of constantly think about the losses and I've learned our situation is a bit more complicated than it was last summer.

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