TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Home from the D&C

First off thank you ladies for all the advice you gave me yesterday about what to expect.  The procedure itself was not bad and went by quickly.  I have some cramping and very light bleeding.  Physically I'm doing ok but emotionally I am all over the place.  I woke up in recovery and immediately started crying.  This whole process is so unfair and so draining.  The Dr. will see me for a follow up in 2 weeks and wants us to TTA for 3 cycles.  As much as it kills me to know I won't be pregnant again anytime soon I know that physically and emotionally I need this break.  DH and I are going to meet with an RE and once we get the test results back from the genetic testing of the baby we will decide what our next step is.  I'm going to try and focus on work, our new house, friends, family and most importantly spending alot of time with my husband.  This past year and a half has been so tough on both of us and I desperately need some time to regroup.

Even though we will be TTA until Summer is it ok if I stick around and still post here?

"Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart"

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I'm a mom to my 4 angel babies who were taken from us much to soon!
BFP#1 on 09/29/09 and EP discovered/Left Tube lost on 10/19/09 EDD 06/12/10
BFP# 2 on 03/21/2010 EDD 11/30/10 Natural M/C on 3/27/10
BFP# 3 on 02/14/2011 EDD 10/28/11 Missed M/C discovered 4/19/11 and D&C 4/21/11 On 5/6/11 we found out our Oct Angel was a beautiful little girl <3
IVF#1=BFP#4 on 8/31/11 EDD 5/12/12 EP discovered and MTX shot given 9/14/ & 9/21 M/C on 10/9/11
IVF#2 and Stims started 12/2 ER 12/16 ET 12/21 transferred two beautiful blastocysts. Please stick LO's! BFP 12/26
Benjamin Matthew Our Little Miracle Born 9/5/2012!
BFP 1/2/14 EDD 9/11/14

Re: Home from the D&amp;amp;C

  • Sending lots of hugs your way. Glad your procedure went well and you are physically doing ok. Will keep you in my thoughts. Please stick around and post here. I still post here even though we aren't actively ttc. I have a follow up in two weeks also. If you need to chat please pm me. I'm home resting right now since I can't work.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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    Sending lots of hugs your way. Glad your procedure went well and you are physically doing ok. Will keep you in my thoughts. Please stick around and post here. I still post here even though we aren't actively ttc. I have a follow up in two weeks also. If you need to chat please pm me. I'm home resting right now since I can't work.

    Thank you so much for the positive thoughts and I'm so sorry for what you are going through.  I had surgery with the removal of my left tube in October 2009 with my first loss so if you need to talk or have any questions please PM me as well!

    "Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart"

    Our TTC Journey

    BabyFetus Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    I'm a mom to my 4 angel babies who were taken from us much to soon!
    BFP#1 on 09/29/09 and EP discovered/Left Tube lost on 10/19/09 EDD 06/12/10
    BFP# 2 on 03/21/2010 EDD 11/30/10 Natural M/C on 3/27/10
    BFP# 3 on 02/14/2011 EDD 10/28/11 Missed M/C discovered 4/19/11 and D&C 4/21/11 On 5/6/11 we found out our Oct Angel was a beautiful little girl <3
    IVF#1=BFP#4 on 8/31/11 EDD 5/12/12 EP discovered and MTX shot given 9/14/ & 9/21 M/C on 10/9/11
    IVF#2 and Stims started 12/2 ER 12/16 ET 12/21 transferred two beautiful blastocysts. Please stick LO's! BFP 12/26
    Benjamin Matthew Our Little Miracle Born 9/5/2012!
    BFP 1/2/14 EDD 9/11/14

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  • Hugs.  Please do stick around, we are done ttc but the ladies are kind enough to let me continue to stick around here.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • I am just SO sorry, hun... (((hugs)))
  • I'm glad the physical part wasn't too bad.  I wish you didn't have to go through it at all though!  Don't worry about sticking around.    You'll always be welcome.
    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • Hugs.
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  • Hugs and post away.
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • I'm glad things went okay physically. I'm so sorry you're going through this again.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • (((hugs)))  I am so sorry you are going through this.  I am glad that things are okay with your physically.  I hope you get some answers and a direction to go in. 
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  • Big (((HUGS))).  I'm so sorry you're going through this. 
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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