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The universe sucks

butterfly843butterfly843
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
So had major abdominal pain yesterday, went to ER and they had no clue what was up. They took a urine sample and surprise we are pg. After 8 years of trying, and it only happened previously with IVF. They kept me overnight, reviewed the ultrasound and its ectopic with a ruptured tube. Heading into surgery in a few. Sorry if any spelling errors typing this on my phone. Please keep me in your thoughts for a smooth surgery.

Jenn

image 3 IUI's all BFN

IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • suntotosuntoto member
    OMG, NO!  ectopics are the worst.  Huge hugs, Butterfly, the universe sucks, big time!
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • jolieandscottjolieandscott
    (((Hugs)))
    BFP #1: 5/3/10 Natural MC: 5/11/10 BFP #2: 3/24/11 C/p: 3/29/11 BFP #3: 5/17/11 C/P: 5/20/11 BFP #4: 11/13/11 Daisypath Anniversary tickersImage and video hosting by TinyPic imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic ~*~Congrats to my TTCAL buddies toshbosh233 & clairenmonique, EDDs 4/2011; bekahjen, EDD 5/2011; MCH77, EDD 7/2011; HokieMomma, EDD 8/2011; shanna82, EDD 9/2011; Rachel4127, EDD 10/2011~*~
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Oh no! I'm so sorry. Lots of thoughts and prayers for an easy surgery and speedy recovery!
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  • swanckswanck

    Oh Jen!

    I'm so, so sorry.  :(


    You are in my thoughts. 

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  • mlmtggmlmtgg
    oh goodness, I am so sorry to hear this. thinking of you.
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member
    Oh no!!  I am so, so sorry!!  That is just awful.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers (((((hugs))))). 
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  • michroccmichrocc member
    Oh,Butterfly, I'm so so sorry! I will send thoughts and well wishes to you for a successful surgery. Huge, huge hugs.
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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    I am so sorry, hon.  This is awful.  Thinking of you.
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  • KelinandKevinKelinandKevin member
    I am so, so sorry.  My thoughts are with you and I hope that surgery goes well.  (((HUGS)))
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    OMG!  I'm so so sorry.  I'm thinking of you.
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    I am SO sorry... And you are right, the universe does suck! You are in my T & P...

     

    (((hugs)))

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  • babes12babes12 member

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    I'm so sorry, thankgod you caught it!  T&P's for a healthy surgery.  ((hugs))

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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest
    I'm so, so sorry sweetheart. This just plain SUCKS!! Huge hugs.
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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member

    (((hugs)))

    Not fair.

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  • Cissi64Cissi64
    I'm really sorry.  I'm praying for successful surgery and a speedy recovery.
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  • karma79karma79 member
    T&P to you!!! I'm so sorry.
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I am so sorry. ((hugs))

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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member

    {{{{{{HUGE HUGS}}}}}}

    I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. T&P

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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    OMG Butterfly, I am so, so sorry!  Sending lots of T&P.
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  • EricaK28EricaK28 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your surgery goes ok. You will be in my T & P. Hugs
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  • crystalknppcrystalknpp member
    I am so sorry.  I had that surgery done in Oct 2009 and I know how scary and hard it is to deal with emotionally and physically.  Please take care of yourself and give yourself all the time you need to recover! Also make sure you have someone to help you after surgery atleast for the first week or two! ((HUGE HUGS)) and I'm sending you so many good thoughts!

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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    I cannot believe this Jenn. What complete and total bullchit. I'm so sorry you're going through this. ((hugs))
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  • damabo80damabo80 member
    I'm so, so sorry. Huge hugs! 


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  • ade2beade2be
    Hugs Jenn.  I am so sorry.  The universe does suck.  Ectopics are horrible....I hope your surgery went well. 
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I'm so, so sorry :-( Praying that your surgery goes smoothly. Will be thinking of you!

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    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
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    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    I am so sorry :(  *massive hugs* Many T&P's.
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I'm so sorry! This just stinks!
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  • jennsadye1979jennsadye1979
    I am so sorry. ((Hugs)) I hope your surgery and recovery goes really smoothly, and you are in my thoughts.
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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    T&Ps coming your way.  I am so sorry!  *hugs*
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  • ShemicoShemico member

    *ticker warning**

    Oh honey. I'm so sorry. *hugs* & T&Ps

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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    Im so sorry, sending positive thoughts
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • StretchadStretchad member
    I'm sorry. Keeping you in my thoughts :-(
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  • Court1Court1
    I'm so sorry sweetie.  This is beyond unfair.
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    I am so, SO sorry to hear this.  How awful!  T&P to you.
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