I'm VERY interested, but I have no idea where to start, what to read, how to get materials etc... There are absolutely no classes offered where I live, so that's way out the window... can I still do it, except more so coaching myself or going all "lone wolf" style... sorry if I sound silly. Just COMPLETELY lost.
Re: Can you do hypnobirthing without classes?
...oh wow I so need to go read something... I thought they were the same thing? What's the big difference between the two? DH is NOT liking the idea of me spending extra money to go med free.... so hypnobabies isn't looking like a good option...
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Since you're only 15 weeks you have time to find someone selling their hypnobabies course before you need to start. It's recommended to start around the beginning of 3rd tri. And if you're interested I'll bs ready to sell mine one about 10 weeks
You can look at their respective web sites... they are not exactly the same.
However you might also talk to your DH about not thinking of it as "extra" money - in some places an epidural can cost $3000-5000 or more... I have no idea what your insurance is, but if you are paying even 10% of that cost and you are able to avoid the epidural then you would come out ahead...
Just a thought - most women give birth only a very few times (maybe even only once) so any money you spend to make it the best experience possible for you is (at least IMHO) worth it... I don't want to have any "what if's" after it is all over...
I think you could do hypnobirthing without taking a class. I would read "Hypnobirthing The Mongan Method." Also I think the "Rainbow Relaxation" CD is very helpful: https://store.hypnobirthing.com/rainbowcd.aspx The first track is affirmations, which help to encourage a positive mindset around labor and delivery. The second track is meant to put you in a state of hypnosis.
The other CD I really liked was Comfort Zone:https://store.hypnobirthing.com/comfortzonebystevenhalpern.aspx It's just music (no talking) recorded to a hypnotic rhythm. I listened to it the full 17.5 hours I was in labor.
Here is a link to a quick overview of what Hypnobirthing is about:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O7kA3PMJwA8
I am also doing it without the class, but I agree with PP. DH may not be thinking about the costs of the epidural and any procedures that would need to be done because of an epi. I would definitely talk to him about the risks that medication put on you and your little one. All intervention leads to a higher risk in C-section, which is the main reason I am preparing for a med-free birth.
I have been reading the book and practicing and totally feel prepared. You can do it too! I had totally been in the mindset of getting drugs to make it easier on me, but the hypnobirthing book totally changed my perspective. I wish I would have picked it up earlier on. I might have even tried the hypnobabies. I hear that course is much more in depth and has a better success rate, so I will definitely try that with my next one. But I wouldn't worry about an extra couple hundred dollars when it means the health of you and your baby, a cheaper hospital bill, and the accomplishment of going natural.
You may also progress too quickly, in which you would be unable to get an epidural, so it is always good to prepare. Check your library to see if they have any of the materials you are looking for too. It may help, since you have plenty of time.
Here's a link from someone who has done both hypnobirthing and hypnobabies methods (and was forwarded to me by my hypnobabies instructor, so obviously it's more pro-Hypnobabies). I'm in my first week of Hypnobabies classes, and I really like it! My instructor (before she became an instructor) did the home-study course and loved it. Good luck!
ETA: Duh, maybe I should put the link in there: https://www.birthnaturally.org/hypnobirthing.htm
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