Pretty sure the only feelings I have left for my mom are rage and hate filled.

BubblyToes

My dad finally got out of the hospital today.  Where's my mom?  She's down in the emergency room trying to score drugs.  Oh, and she took his wallet before going down there. 

She tried to keep him sedated all day on Wednesday.

She called me to beg me for money.

And now?  Now that my dad is home?  She's in bed.  Asleep.  Leaving my dad to fend for myself.

She is such a selfishbitch.  Seriously.  She cares about no-one but herself.

I honestly think I hate her for all of this.  

She's not a mother.  She hasn't been a mother in 25 years.

AnnapolisLari

I honestly wouldn't blame you for hating her. I'm pretty sure that I do.

(hugs)

Jamaica_Bride

Hugs. That's all I can muster, babe. Big ole hugs!

ghm

I'm sorry Bubs. She sucks. Is there any way he can stay with you while he's going through his treatments? It doesn't sound like he's going to get good care with her.

eclaires

ugh, she is such a f*cking bag of hag, bubbly.

I'm sorry she's so worthless.  In fact, I'm sorry that she's not just plain worthless instead of actively sucking everything out of everyone around her.  It'd probably be easier if she was just worthless.

hugs. 

minnasmommy

I'm so sorry! 

REOM

That's so awful.

I just can't stomach people who can't step up to the plate when their family needs them the most. THAT is when I really judge people.

HUGS girl, sorry to hear your  dad was in the hospital. Hope everything is ok.

xoxo

MelandJeff

Holy shiz.

Your poor poor dad. WTF? He is not safe in her care. What can anyone do? There must be something?

BubblyToes

I'm 2 1/2-3 hours away.  My sisters are close and are going tomorrow to see what they can do. 

Believe me, if I knew he would come, I would go get him right now.  But he won't leave.  I don't know why, but he won't.

Thankfully, he doesn't need any further treatments.  The cancer was limited to the kidney, and was very small.  Removing the kidney got rid of it.  

Kapalua

ugh...ditto everyone else.  I'm sorry she sucks  

r9stedt

bebemama

Sorry. Your feelings are completely justifiable.

cooker71

Gah that's truly awful. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this from the one person you are SUPPOSED to be able to rely on for anything.

ridesbuttons

JHC.  Why do you give her the time of day.

Cut her out.  Seriously.

You matter.  Your feelings matter.

((((hugs))))

Ciarrai

Ugh!!  I'm so sorry!  That just sucks. Can you cut her out of your life?  Can you talk to your dad with your sisters and see if he won't move out?  Kinda like an intervention for him since nothing works for your mom?

((hugs))  I wish there was more I could say/do!

Jodi&Joe

Wellshit, this is NOT the way I was hoping it would go!  (((HUGS))) I'm so sorry honey...there is nothing worse than the hurt felt at the hands of a mom!