My dad finally got out of the hospital today. Where's my mom? She's down in the emergency room trying to score drugs. Oh, and she took his wallet before going down there.
She tried to keep him sedated all day on Wednesday.
She called me to beg me for money.
And now? Now that my dad is home? She's in bed. Asleep. Leaving my dad to fend for myself.
She is such a selfishbitch. Seriously. She cares about no-one but herself.
I honestly think I hate her for all of this.
She's not a mother. She hasn't been a mother in 25 years.
Re: Pretty sure the only feelings I have left for my mom are rage and hate filled.
I honestly wouldn't blame you for hating her. I'm pretty sure that I do.
(hugs)
DS - December 2006
DD - December 2008
~Lisa
Mum to Owen and Lucas
ugh, she is such a f*cking bag of hag, bubbly.
I'm sorry she's so worthless. In fact, I'm sorry that she's not just plain worthless instead of actively sucking everything out of everyone around her. It'd probably be easier if she was just worthless.
hugs.
That's so awful.
I just can't stomach people who can't step up to the plate when their family needs them the most. THAT is when I really judge people.
HUGS girl, sorry to hear your dad was in the hospital. Hope everything is ok.
xoxo
Holy shiz.
Your poor poor dad. WTF? He is not safe in her care. What can anyone do? There must be something?
I'm 2 1/2-3 hours away. My sisters are close and are going tomorrow to see what they can do.
Believe me, if I knew he would come, I would go get him right now. But he won't leave. I don't know why, but he won't.
Thankfully, he doesn't need any further treatments. The cancer was limited to the kidney, and was very small. Removing the kidney got rid of it.
You take my ovaries, I take your yarns.
Nora Judith 7/2/06 Miles Chauncey 4/20/09 born with Trisomy 21 - Down syndrome
JHC. Why do you give her the time of day.
Cut her out. Seriously.
You matter. Your feelings matter.
((((hugs))))
Ugh!! I'm so sorry! That just sucks. Can you cut her out of your life? Can you talk to your dad with your sisters and see if he won't move out? Kinda like an intervention for him since nothing works for your mom?
((hugs)) I wish there was more I could say/do!