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Oh, DH . . .

kekiskekis member
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So we've been at the RPL/IF game for over four years now and DH is still trying to understand it all.  Last night, I was telling him how the music teacher at my school was (visibly to me) going into labor yesterday afternoon during a schoolwide performance.  She was taken by ambulance & will be having her 2nd baby today.

Well, this is one of four teachers that was pg with me the first time.  Our names are Kristin (me), Kristen, Krissy & Kristina.  The three of them went on to have their daughters, have second children & are SAHMs.  (music teacher's last day was yesterday)

Anyway ---- I told DH that I was jealous this teacher is having a baby.  He replied, "Really?"  OMG. Yes!  I told him I can be happy for her and jealous at the same time & that I'm tired of every having babies but us.  He gets it a teeny bit more now.  Men.  :/

Todd & Kristin, 3.10.07

After 5.5 years of loss, heartbreak, and empty arms, our dreams were fulfilled through the beautiful, selfless gift of adoption. We are amazingly blessed!

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Re: Oh, DH . . .

  • madelyn07madelyn07 member
    imagekekis:

     Men.  :/

    Yep, exactly.

     

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

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  • DeputiesWifeDeputiesWife

    Men is right. Thats funny.

    DH still doesnt get it sometimes. He will find a reason why its good I'm not like them. He will also say we are not them to get PG so easliy. Its his attempt to make me feel better. Sometimes it works, sometimes not.

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

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  • thewormstheworms member
    imagemadelyn07:
    imagekekis:

     Men.  :/

    Yep, exactly.

     

    ditto

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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  • STL34STL34 member
    I think MH finally understood how I felt the other day after we left his sister's house (she just had baby #1 on Sunday).  After holding his niece, he felt the happiness mingled with jealousy that I always feel. 

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    ~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~ 

    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

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  • psychmusetlspsychmusetls member
    boys are stupid :P  we get it...i don't understand how guys can truely compartmentalize their feelings. . .
    S/PAIFW
    Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
    PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
    Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
    Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
    Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
    Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
    IVF #3
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