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It does get better?

jlcrane78jlcrane78 member
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My BFF just told me she is pregnant.  I thought I would react horribly to the news, but I think I took it well.  I am not crying, and I blocked out (most) angry thoughts.  Just the other day I was thinking about this very thing, and I vowed to not get jealous that she got pregnant before me.  I told myself that it's not a contest.  I don't know if those thoughts helped me or I'm just having a good day.  Maybe I won't feel like I've been kicked every time I hear an announcement.  This is so much nicer
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Re: It does get better?

  • thewormstheworms member

    it's hard to not feel kicked in the gutt when you hear announcements but their fertility has nothing to do with your infertility. 

    i'm glad you are feeling good about it.  your feelings will go up and down but your turn is coming soon cutie

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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  • MrsP71506MrsP71506
    I'm proud of you for being so positive about this situation!  Your time will come soon!!
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  • matt'sbridematt'sbride member
    I'm proud of you for taking it so well. (((hugs)))

    We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And HOPE does not dissappoint.
    Romans 5:3-5

    ~Matt and Jen~
    Married August 26, 2006
    TTC since June 2008
    Severe MFI
    IVF #1 Feb. 2011 = BFN
    IVF #2 (Long Lupron) May 2011 = BFP!!!
    Our sweet little girl, born January 26, 2012

    Time for #2!

    IVF #1 (Long Lupron) July 2013 = BFP!!!

    Beta #1 (8/1) 203! Beta #2 (8/8) 3,677! 1st u/s scheduled for 8/15!

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