Where TF is my H!?

SDarling324

Not home.  That's for sure.  I had written out a long explanation but decided it's not worth it... 

He went out with a friend and I woke up to the sound of rain and no H beside me at 3am.  So I tried to call him with no luck for over 45 minutes.  He then answers to tell me he isn't where he originally said he was and then tells me he actually does not know where he is. 

It is now 4am, he is taking a cab back home.  My mom's 50th birthday is today and she has a full day planned with the family.  You can bet your ass I will be waking my H up at 7 to start the day... I will not feel one ounce of sympathy for him if he is hung-over.  If this was a once in a blue moon night, fine, have fun.  BUT it happens more times than I would like to admit.  I am mad.  If it were me, he would be livid.  We are not 19 anymore and have a family and I find it so inconsiderate and disrespectful. Grow the hell up.

I don't know what I am looking for by writing this and hopefully I do not get flamed for being mad at my drunkard H but I just need to tell someone so I can go back to sleep and move on.  Vent over, thanks for listening.

 

MADforever2009

SDarling324:

Not home.  That's for sure.  I had written out a long explanation but decided it's not worth it... 

He went out with a friend and I woke up to the sound of rain and no H beside me at 3am.  So I tried to call him with no luck for over 45 minutes.  He then answers to tell me he isn't where he originally said he was and then tells me he actually does not know where he is. 

It is now 4am, he is taking a cab back home.  My mom's 50th birthday is today and she has a full day planned with the family.  You can bet your ass I will be waking my H up at 7 to start the day... I will not feel one ounce of sympathy for him if he is hung-over.  If this was a once in a blue moon night, fine, have fun.  BUT it happens more times than I would like to admit.  I am mad.  If it were me, he would be livid.  We are not 19 anymore and have a family and I find it so inconsiderate and disrespectful. Grow the hell up.

I don't know what I am looking for by writing this and hopefully I do not get flamed for being mad at my drunkard H but I just need to tell someone so I can go back to sleep and move on.  Vent over, thanks for listening.

 

vent away... Time for someone to grow up... You're right. (but at least he's cabbing it and not driving right?)

Atlmom82

No flames here. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I would be mad too. If I were you I would let him have it in the morning. When we first got married my H was a little wild so I understand but you have a baby now. It just puts unnecessary stress on you. I hope today is a fun day with you family.

TBLilyRose

Vent away! I'd be piissed, too. And I'd also be waking his butt up at 7 a.m. It's not like he didn't know you had family plans today.

I just don't understand the need to go out and get plastered once you're married and have a family. Maybe once in awhile but not when your wife is alone and obviously not okay with it, and when you've made commitments the next day already. 

MrsDe2008

That would not fly by me. I'd be pissed too!

Thankfully, DH is not a drinker and has no interest to go out and party. S is his daughter as much as she is mine, so if I'm not going out 'til all hours of the night, neither is he. Good luck with him. =/

PunkyBooster

Wow.

Well, first, ask him when he is home or in the a.m. what happened. My H did this last year and I was so PO'ed that he was out so late and making me worry but it turned out he had to take someone to mass general for alcohol poisoning at the Celtic's game (I know, what are, they? 19?)

But he did have a good reason, he was sober when he got home and I believed him.

So maybe he was trying to be vague on the phone and will give you details face-to-face.

good luck!! Have fun today! 

AverysMom1118

He would be sleeping on the couch AND waking up at the a$$ crack of dawn in this house! 

flyingsaucer

You are right to be mad!  What adult gets drunk to the point where they don't know where they are?  Not ok in my book.  Everyone has a few too many at some point... even responsible parents... but being tipsy and being BOMBED are two different things.  Suppose there was an emergency with you or your baby?  Get him girl!

SpartanChick88

No flames here.  If he were my H, I wouldn't even let him back in the house.  In fact, I did that about a month ago and the boy hasn't had a drop to drink since.  I say kick his drunk @$$ and... oh and make him feel reeeeeally guilty (see pp re: emergency above)