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72 hours

The last 72 hours of my life have been a roller coaster of emotions! 

Saturday night, 6:30pm - text message from our former foster home specialist (overseer of our home) "Call me when you're together. Think Pink!"

6:35pm - "I have a friend that has a friend's daughter in active labor, just got her epi. It's a girl. Want more info?" - DUH!

8:30pm - "Things are progressing. She's said yes she wants to meet y'all tomorrow when things settle down"

11:30ish pm - Baby girl born, 5lb 8oz, 34/35 weeker, breathing on her own.

Sunday afternoon, 2:30pm - Our friend went to visit BM and BGM, calls and tells us to come up and we call our lawyer

4:30pm arrive for 5pm feeding. BM doesn't make it down in time, but her and I went in to see baby. She immediately hugged DH and I. 

6:30pm - she asks us to be parents to her baby. AGH!!!! We were perfect for her!

Monday AM - I headed up to hang out with BM, DH headed to lawyer. We had a bit of drama concerning BF because BM wanted our name to remain OFF any paperwork he would see (he does not sound like a winner, in fact, the thought of him scares me). We thought about backing out, but we decided to look for other options after our lawyer said he wouldn't do it. All the while texting back and forth with MrsB about every thing!

Monday afternoon - found an agency that would help us, accepted our homestudy done at our foster care agency :)

Tuesday 2:30pm - BM signed the affidavit waiving her rights

6:30pm - call to foster care agency and officially close our home  

Tuesday 8:03pm - I got to hold my little girl for the first time and feed her!

 

We will be cautiously in love with her for the next 31 days regarding BF. :)

 

So CaptSerious, was it what you thought it was? :P 

Re: 72 hours

  • I fricken LOVE this story!!!!  Congrats and smooth sailing! ;-)
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  • Yay!!  That's amazing!  Congrats!
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  • Ahhhhhhh FINALLY!!!!  I've been about to burst I wanted to tell everyone so badly!

    Congrats Mama!  And hope your sweet boys adjust to their new baby sister!  <3

  • Oh, wow!!!  What a thrill!

    Lots of prayers for an uneventful 31 days.

    Can't wait to hear more... like names :)

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  • MrsB - when I got off the phone with you, J made me go "off roading" on the shoulder of I-30 to get past the traffic. 

    silliest - I completely forgot that part! Her name is Savannah. 

  • Amazing story. Congrats on your little girl
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  • Oh my goodness. Congrats!!!!!!!! 
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  • WOW! What an amazing story! Enjoy sweet Savannah!
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  • I have to admit, while I was guessing you had been place with (a) girl(s), I never imagined it was a straight adoption! I also was wondering if it was the girls that you used to foster.

    How exciting! CONGRATULATIONS MOMMY!!! Welcome home, Sweet Savannah!

    I, too, will be praying for no complications and that you all remain safe. YEAY!!!!! I'm so happy for you!!!!!

  • wow what a roller coaster.





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  • That's great!!  Congrats!!  Enjoy your new bundle of joy!!
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  • OMG that is amazing!  I am so happy for you what exciting news!!!!!!!!!!  Congrats!

    I have a question for you.  If I have a homestudy done through the foster care agency we are working through, and come into a situation like you, do you think an agency would accept it?  What are the costs for you involved with finding your baby girl this way?  You can PM me if you want.  I am over the moon excited for you!

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    What a wonderful and exciting story!! CONGRATS!!!!!!!

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  • What a sweet and exciting time!  Praying that it's smooth sailing from here.  Congratulations to you and your family!
  • So wonderful!!!  Ill be thinking & praying for you guys for this next waiting period!
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  • I'm crying, what an amazing story!
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  • I thought is was going to be that the girls were coming back.  I'm really happy for you! ( And also insanely jealous!)   I'll also be praying for smooth transitions and a smooth  TPR/adoption process!

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  • Oh my gosh!  Congrats!!
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  • What a crazy 72 hours! That's really exciting!
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  • Wow! Congratulations!!
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  • Wow, that is incredible!!!! I am so happy for you and hope everything works out.
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  • This is such an amazing story!!! Congratulations!
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  • OMG!!!! YAAAYYYYAYYAYAYAYYYY!!!! congrats!

    welcome sweet baby girl - you've found yourself in a very special family :)

  • holy crap - this is amazing news!!!

    Congrat on your GIRL

  • WOW!  Congratulations!
  • How AMAZING!!  Congrats and I'll be thinking of you over the next days hoping that all goes smoothly!!
  • Oh my gosh!!!  I am so happy for you!  Enjoy loving that sweet little girl!
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  • imageFloridamom224:

    I have a question for you.  If I have a homestudy done through the foster care agency we are working through, and come into a situation like you, do you think an agency would accept it?  What are the costs for you involved with finding your baby girl this way?  You can PM me if you want.  I am over the moon excited for you!

    I am curious about this, too.  Please, PM me too... if you want.  Thanks! 

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  • Congrats!!!!!  What a great story,  Praying for an easy 31 days.  Welcome to the world Baby Girl.  You have an awesome family!
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  • You have a daughter!!!!!

    Congratulations! 

  • WOW, and congrats!
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  • Congrats!!! That's so flippin awesome!! YAY!!! :)
  • Incredible!  Congratulations!!
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  • Congratulations! That is amazing!
  • Congratulations!!! This is so exciting!
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  • Wow!  I'm so happy for you!  Enjoy every minute with your little girl and I will also keep you in my prayers for a quick and easy 31 days!
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  • hoooooray!  congratulations!
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