Do people on the bump have alcohol issues?

kes3237

Sigh. 

Kelso, thank you for being nice about it.

I will go ahead and STFU now about it since I clearly did not read between the so-called lines and/or google every g-d back story before posting about a topic.  Silly me.

jlthompson19

yankeebaby2:

buddhagouda:

Even without having seen a single other post from Kelso, you'd have to be pretty dense to not read between the lines of this conversation and figure out what they're talking about.

sorry but if I jump in on a thread and am told to stfu you can bet your ass I'm going to keep going until I find out why

I wouldn't have told her to STFU if she had calmly asked why.  She didn't.  She had to try to get smart with me and try to make me look like an as$.  I don't take kindly to that.

yankeebaby2

Cassie730:

kes3237:

Sigh. 

Kelso, thank you for being nice about it.

I will go ahead and STFU now about it since I clearly did not read between the so-called lines and/or google every g-d back story before posting about a topic.  Silly me.

So out curiosity....why exactly did you think Kelso was being singled out from the other 30 women who admitted to drinking while pg, drinking in front of LO, and having several drinks a week??? She clearly wasn't the only person who responded to the post admitting to frequent alcohol consumption.

Maybe her husband isn't 21?  Star must br peeing in her pants at the irony

yankeebaby2

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

buddhagouda:

Even without having seen a single other post from Kelso, you'd have to be pretty dense to not read between the lines of this conversation and figure out what they're talking about.

sorry but if I jump in on a thread and am told to stfu you can bet your ass I'm going to keep going until I find out why

I wouldn't have told her to STFU if she had calmly asked why.  She didn't.  She had to try to get smart with me and try to make me look like an as$.  I don't take kindly to that.

If I didn't know the whole story I would have responded the same way.  Her kid is almost two so she doesn't post here and wouldn't know

kes3237

Cassie730:

kes3237:

Sigh. 

Kelso, thank you for being nice about it.

I will go ahead and STFU now about it since I clearly did not read between the so-called lines and/or google every g-d back story before posting about a topic.  Silly me.

So out curiosity....why exactly did you think Kelso was being singled out from the other 30 women who admitted to drinking while pg, drinking in front of LO, and having several drinks a week??? She clearly wasn't the only person who responded to the post admitting to frequent alcohol consumption.

She was singled out by one person.  I hadn't even read all the responses when Isaw that and responded.  Maybe it was harsh but I read the OP, read Kelso's response, and read the "GASP!" response back to it.  So yeah, I reacted. 

Listen, I frequent other boards on TB and otherwise; 9-12 is not my turf.  I get how some people know each other and it's expected that certain stories are known.  But people are allowed to respond to a topic without knowing the back stories.

WaterLiIy

I didn't drink at all while I was pregnant.
I haven't drank once since having DS.
I do not have a problem having a drink in front of my children, I just have not done it as of yet.

yankeebaby2

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

kes3237

Cassie730:

kes3237:

Cassie730:

kes3237:

Sigh. 

Kelso, thank you for being nice about it.

I will go ahead and STFU now about it since I clearly did not read between the so-called lines and/or google every g-d back story before posting about a topic.  Silly me.

So out curiosity....why exactly did you think Kelso was being singled out from the other 30 women who admitted to drinking while pg, drinking in front of LO, and having several drinks a week??? She clearly wasn't the only person who responded to the post admitting to frequent alcohol consumption.

She was singled out by one person.  I hadn't even read all the responses when Isaw that and responded.  Maybe it was harsh but I read the OP, read Kelso's response, and read the "GASP!" response back to it.  So yeah, I reacted. 

Listen, I frequent other boards on TB and otherwise; 9-12 is not my turf.  I get how some people know each other and it's expected that certain stories are known.  But people are allowed to respond to a topic without knowing the back stories.

Oh I know people are allowed to respond to posts without backstories. I do it all the time, trust me I'm bored and I feel your pain. It was just SUPER odd to me that you jumped to her defense considering literally everyone else in the post with the exception of two people admitting to drinking on at least a weekly basis in front of their children. Your response just seemed hostile considering the circumstances but I will tell you....this is the first interesting thing to happen on 9-12 all fvcking day. You're welcome here any time in my book and we can throw down to stir this place up if you want :-) It's like tumbleweeds.

Fair enough.  And thanks.

yankeebaby2

Cassie730:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

To be honest this one probably got overly snarky because it's just so everloving boring here lately.

I do still find it ironic that Kelso posted asking for drama but then when shiit when down she's all "whoa whoa, calm down"

 

she also ran when the *** hit the fan. 

jlthompson19

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

Jocelyn0415

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

I have no clue what the backstory is. 

yankeebaby2

Jocelyn0415:

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

I have no clue what the backstory is. 

then google it, slutasaurus, because if you don't know, we aren't going to tell you

Jocelyn0415

yankeebaby2:

Jocelyn0415:

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

I have no clue what the backstory is. 

then google it, slutasaurus, because if you don't know, we aren't going to tell you

My stalking skills have lead me to posts about an alleged domestic violence incident. One in particular where Kelso slings a bunch of obscenities at you in capital letters.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT WE'RE YELLING ABOUT!

heatherlane

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Jocelyn0415

Never mind. Found the OP.

mfransdell

KelsoXOXO

Cassie730:

KelsoXOXO:

Cassie730:

Exactly. And when both people involved in the conversation told you that you don't know wtf you're talking about that's when you take your cue to STFU. So incase no one has said it clearly enough to you....just shut the fvck up already.

Let's caaalllmm down. I can see she thought H was being flamed for a few drinks at night. She just didn't know we were talking about something else. :passes the peace pipe:

Says the girl who asked for some drama in another post ;-) Like PP mentioned...I don't think it takes a genius to figure out that she clearly wasn't referring to this specific post when she asked about your DH in particular considering there were like at least 20 other people all admitting to drinking, and drinking in front of LO's and you're the ONLY one she said anything to.

I just wanted to help your panties come out of your a.ss, that's all. :pets Cassie's hair:

jlthompson19

heatherlane:

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Not my response, but good try.

KelsoXOXO

Cassie730:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

To be honest this one probably got overly snarky because it's just so everloving boring here lately.

I do still find it ironic that Kelso posted asking for drama but then when shiit when down she's all "whoa whoa, calm down"

 

Hey I'm all for drama. I was trying calm that down because the poster didn't realize there was a different thing being discussed and she was being told to STFU because she didn't know what she was talking about. But MY BAD for helping her understand a little. GAAAWWWDDD.

heatherlane

jlthompson19:

heatherlane:

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Not my response, but good try.

 Yeah, I was paraphrasing. Here is the actual quote I had in mine (your first response to the 'outsider'):

"But you can shut the fvck up right about now, since you clearly have NO idea what you're talking about."

 Sounds pretty much the same to me.

KelsoXOXO

yankeebaby2:

Cassie730:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

To be honest this one probably got overly snarky because it's just so everloving boring here lately.

I do still find it ironic that Kelso posted asking for drama but then when shiit when down she's all "whoa whoa, calm down"

 

she also ran when the *** hit the fan. 

Actually I didn't, I'm at work having a few things to do here and there for once today..

Jocelyn0415

jlthompson19:

heatherlane:

jlthompson19:

yankeebaby2:

I just assumed she didn't read the whole thread.  I'm as mean as they come but I hate when it gets snarky just because the poster is not a regular on this board or she didn't google the back story

I see your point, but I maintain she got snarky first.  And I honestly thought all the of the Bump and it's subsidiaries knew about the situation in question.  It was C&P'd like no other.

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Not my response, but good try.

Oh, sorry. You just told her the STFU. You didn't tell her to STFU and ask who she was. BIG difference. 

GreysGirl

JulySpark05:

sourpatchkids:

I'm probably the only one...but...neither I nor my DH or any of our immediate family drink at all.

You're not alone. I don't drink either.

I don't drink either and MH does only rarely. People have had drinks in front of him I'm sure. I am just not a big drinker.  

FerreraRocher

I never drank. I don't give a what people say I was cautious and yes at times overly cautious. I don't judge mothers who have the occasional glass of wine.

buddhagouda

heatherlane:

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Duh. "Who are you?" is always the appropriate response when a "regular" doesn't like what someone else is saying. Everybody knows that.

Come to think of it, perhaps I should be sad I don't get them anymore. 

Jocelyn0415

buddhagouda:

heatherlane:

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Duh. "Who are you?" is always the appropriate response when a "regular" doesn't like what someone else is saying. Everybody knows that.

Come to think of it, perhaps I should be sad I don't get them anymore. 

And who might you be????

 

 

heatherlane

Jocelyn0415:

buddhagouda:

heatherlane:

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Duh. "Who are you?" is always the appropriate response when a "regular" doesn't like what someone else is saying. Everybody knows that.

Come to think of it, perhaps I should be sad I don't get them anymore. 

And who might you be????

 

 

Oh, like you would fvcking know...you're a nobody, remember?

Jocelyn0415

heatherlane:

Oh, like you would fvcking know...you're a nobody, remember?

I know. A big fat nobody.

operaapril

heatherlane:

Jocelyn0415:

buddhagouda:

heatherlane:

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Duh. "Who are you?" is always the appropriate response when a "regular" doesn't like what someone else is saying. Everybody knows that.

Come to think of it, perhaps I should be sad I don't get them anymore. 

And who might you be????

 

 

Oh, like you would fvcking know...you're a nobody, remember?

Hahahaha!

Jocelyn0415

operaapril:

Hahahaha!

You shut your mouth when you're talking to me, April! You hear me?! 

heatherlane

Jocelyn0415:

operaapril:

Hahahaha!

You shut your mouth when you're talking to me, April! You hear me?! 

OMG, how do you even KNOW her name is April? Huh?

sunnyday016

I really love where this thread is going :P

operaapril

heatherlane:

Jocelyn0415:

operaapril:

Hahahaha!

You shut your mouth when you're talking to me, April! You hear me?! 

OMG, how do you even KNOW her name is April? Huh?

STALKER! 

Jocelyn0415

heatherlane:

Jocelyn0415:

operaapril:

Hahahaha!

You shut your mouth when you're talking to me, April! You hear me?! 

OMG, how do you even KNOW her name is April? Huh?

I told you guys, I have SSS (Super Stalking Skills)!

nestinginjapan

Did you ever have a cocktail when you were pregnant? nope, just a couple sips of wine towards the end with dinner

Will you have a cocktail in front of your LO? sure

How many cocktails a week do you generally have? I have a glass of wine every night with dinner, and also a beer on the weekends.

Do you think most of the ladies on the bump need to straighten up or lighten up? I think there's enough of us here who are pretty chill about the whole issue.

electricdoctor83

heatherlane:

Jocelyn0415:

buddhagouda:

heatherlane:

I just didn't realize that the appropriate response to an eyeroll was an angry "STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 But I guess that's just what the kids are doing these days.

Duh. "Who are you?" is always the appropriate response when a "regular" doesn't like what someone else is saying. Everybody knows that.

Come to think of it, perhaps I should be sad I don't get them anymore. 

And who might you be????

 

 

Oh, like you would fvcking know...you're a nobody, remember?

haha, you kill me Heather.

Ya'll are making me post on the bump again. 

PoetSorrow

So I totally read this

"STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 

In this voice 

 

gumiberg

my drink of choice is whipped cream vodka.  soooooo tasty!

KelsoXOXO

gumiberg:

my drink of choice is whipped cream vodka.  soooooo tasty!

What is THIS?? I must know.

janjag

PoetSorrow:

So I totally read this

"STFU, who the hell are YOUUUUUUUUUU".

 

In this voice 

 

   ahhh, classic Cartman