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2BMrsYoung2BMrsYoung
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Is anyone one else terrified at the thought of the pain of the baby trying to come out based on the pain you've experienced with your husband trying to get in?!?!
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  • MrsRoy07MrsRoy07 member
    Yes- and the pain I experienced during and after my first internal also made me nervous about pushing a baby out.... what have we gotten ourselves into!?!
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  • lindsayandwillislindsayandwillis member
    Sex?  What's that?  DH is freaked out by the thought of LO being in there, jumping all around, so I just don't have an answer for ya on this one, unfortunately. 
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  • LittleDelanyLittleDelany
    Yes!! I feel like a virgin all over again.  I said to DH last time, "man, if that made me sore, I'm in BIG trouble when I have this kid!!"
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  • htuzzi324htuzzi324 member

    imageMrsRoy07:
    Yes- and the pain I experienced during and after my first internal also made me nervous about pushing a baby out.... what have we gotten ourselves into!?!

    This!! My OB manually dilated me and it was the worst pain of my life. I haven't had sex in a while, but I remember when my RLP made it literally impossible. Ouch.

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  • 2BMrsYoung2BMrsYoung
    My main concern is the pushing part. I not as nervous about the contractions!!
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  • Mrs S 08Mrs S 08 member

    image2BMrsYoung:
    My main concern is the pushing part. I not as nervous about the contractions!!

    This exactly. I mean, I feel like he is too big for me, I think because I am swollen down there, and I think he is nothing compared to the size of a baby. Everytime we try I always make the comment I don't see how a baby is supposed to come out from there, it seems impossible at this point.

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  • circe811circe811 member
    I am so relieved to hear I'm not the only one experiencing this! Sex has been very painful recently so I cannot even imagine what it would be like to try to push a baby out without meds. No thanks, I <3 modern medicine.
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  • JlynnNorwoodJlynnNorwood
    I just got some today, for the sake of maybe softening my cervix before my first internal & as we were having sex, I'm thinking  "Oh my goodness, this ish hurts! How am I going to push this baby out when it hurts so much to get something in?" lol, I was not focused AT ALL.
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  • jackiemk83jackiemk83 member
    For sure!  Sex was painful at 20ish weeks, so it's been a long while, but the internal this week confirmed that things are still pretty cramped right now.  
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  • ACSMITH89ACSMITH89
    *raises hand*  Yeah, I don't think I've ever been so *closed up* before.  I'm wanting sex more because I know it will be harder to come by when baby is here, but darn it does hurt.  
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